Maybe she blocked him. If he can't find it from his account, see if you can find it from your account. If she blocked him then he can't find her but other people can. If her name is still on his friends list but there is no profile picture of her beside it (just the blue and white silhouette) then she has disabled it.
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I'm giving it another shot. We will see.
My forum is still there and everyone is welcome to come join as well. There is a private women only subforum there if anyone is interested. Also, there is no CAPTCHA.
The link to the forum is
http://www.rightplanet.proboards.com