Compare the bras - one is mine and second is my roommate's:
We have the same chests, so our band size is the same. Both bras are the same long.
She has 35" in boobs level, so she wears 32D.
I have 43", so I wear 32HH.
Didn't you say you were a J, not an HH? That first bra has the most enormous cups I have ever seen.