I think I’m in between tomboy and girly-girl.
Most of the kids I DID play with were boys. Girls liked to pretend they were grownups, while boys actually liked to PLAY.
I loved Barbie dolls, but preferred to take them on “adventures”, rather than have them play stupid beauty pageants and stuff like other girls did. But I also liked to play with their hair and change their clothes – you couldn’t do that with “boy” toys like the plastic GI Joe action figures – although those were cool too!
I liked both “girl” and “boy” cartoons, though I tended more towards shows with a lot of action and/or were colourful or aesthetically pleasing. She-Ra rocked because she was a girl AND she kicked ass! Care Bears were sissy as hell but they were cute and I loved the pastel colours. But I also loved Thundercats, the GI Joe cartoons, and a bunch of other typically “boy” cartoons.
When it came to board games and video games, I definitely tended more towards boy stuff, or unisex at the very least. I liked Barbies, but Barbie games were always about fashion and dates and shopping (blech). Girl games forced you to act out the very things I hated about "girl play". The best board game ever was Mouse Trap – because you got to build stuff! And my favourite video games were simulation games and RPGs – stuff most girls aren’t interested in.
I like make-up but I think it is much more of an artistic interest than an actual desire to change my appearance. I am slightly interested in fashion – but again, it is strictly an artistic interest - I don’t actually incorporate fashion trends into my own wardrobe. As for hair, well, it’s strictly wash-n-go for me.
In a nutshell, if I liked anything girly, it was strictly a visual, artistic interest - even as a child. I like the effects you can create with a little eyeshadow, but I love what can be done with a little rubber and paint when it comes to Hollywood creature effects, too. It’s strictly art.
I may have liked how Barbie LOOKED, even if I didn’t like the social BS that look represented (if that makes any sense).