Female perspective needed, please

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I'm a man, 42 years old. My wife of 9 years is 37.

How do you as women make your male partner feel wanted and desired and sexy?

A story I conveyed in another thread got me thinking that I feel as though I'm not feeling like someone who is considered desirable or sexy or attractive in any way.

I'm kinda thinking it's one of the differences between male and female brains much like when a woman asks, "what do you think about me in this top?" and he says, "it looks fine". What he means is she does look lovely and everything but she might have been hoping for something a bit more thought out and substantial.

I just want to feel like I might be attractive or wanted and needed aside from just being a warm body who brings some money onto the house.

Please help and please be thoughtful and respectful. If you don't have something constructive or friendly to say, don't bother replying.

Thank you.