Aspie Females, sexual question.

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I was wondering, do any of you guys moan during sex? I dont, to me it just seems weird like it would be hard to moan during sex. My friend says I whimper and have heavier breathing. So I was reading about women and moaning during sex and it seems that many women moan for the mans pleasure sorta in a way of manipulating the man. Since generally most aspie females are not as socially adept as NT women and dont really know how to manipulate. Do many of you just stay quiet during sex?

I would bet that more men moan during sex than women. Also, the moaning most women do in porn looks fake.
And yeah, I basically don't make much noise... This should be a poll.

I do, I can be quite loud during it. I growl as well during it.

Me too. I laugh a lot too.

when I'm home alone of course, if not, then I stay discreet with just heavy breathing. But sometimes I prefer not to waste energy releasing it as a moan. Sometimes things are more intense that way (by not moaning).

Definitely, unless I'm not really into it. I don't like to exaggerate for my partner's benefit, though. Too much like lying, and I hate lying.

So you guys are saying that moaning is natural as opposed to manipulating your partner? Ok shrug. I just dont moan period.

I don't think it's something you should worry about. For me, it just happens spontaneously...I'm not doing it to be manipulative.

I've felt like if I don't moan, then he will question whether or not I like it. So I have adapted to moaning to show him that I like it, especially since my facial expressions tend to be blank. Otherwise, I will like what he is doing, but he will slow his pace down, thinking that I don't enjoy it when I really do.

I think sex is the only situation in which my face is really easy to read, and also I make a lot of noise usually, it's difficult for me to be quiet if I'm enjoying it. When I orgasm sometimes I scream, which I can't really help.

But if I want to express something to my partner, I usually have no difficulty stating directly whatever I want to express, unless I literally just can't speak.

I didn't used to moan at all - men do seem a little concerned about this, like that if you're not moaning you're not having a good time, some women may fake moaning but I've never done that...a good partner should learn your body language and not need you to moan.

I do moan now...and it is natural - I think it comes with age, in that as you get older you get more comfortable during sex and less self-conscious so you can let go and allow yourself to moan...and to experience better sex that brings about the moaning too.

It's different for everyone though, don't pretend to moan if you're not feelin' it just for his sake.

I usually moan because it usually gets the guy off faster and I don't like having sex for a long time. Mind you, my last boyfriend liked it when I was quiet during sex...

Moan, scream, growl...I do it all. And no, not for manipulation purposes. It's completely spontaneous. I love sex and it just feels natural to make noise during it. It's just like someone who screams on roller coasters or grunts when they pick up something heavy. The noise doesn't really help the experience. It's just a natural extension of the moment. And for the record -- I like it when my man is noisy too.

I'm very quiet during sex, apart from the laughing. I moan a bit when I cum, but only quietly.

I'm silent. I don't make noise when I'm alone so why would I make noise with anyone else?

Only at orgasm. Then he knows he's OK to go too.