Aimless wrote:
78. When trying to get a problem fixed or trying to make a point with someone you disagree with, don't insult them or put them on the defensive. They can't or won't listen to you anymore after that.
I'm guilty of that. I really have to work on it. I even do it to my own husband and friends.
94. When people ask you a question, give them a detailed answer, not a direct answer. People want to hear details.
95. When someone asks do they look fat in their dress, you are supposed to say no even if they do look fat in it.
96. When a woman asks if you think she is fat, you're supposed to say no even if you think she is.
Some I made up:
97. Do not ask questions you are not willing to answer yourself.
98. Do not go touching people's bellies just to see if it's a belly or if they are pregnant.
99. Do not go asking someone questions about themselves and then ignoring what they ask you about yourself.
100. Do not talk about what you want to talk about only and then not listen to what other people want to talk about.
101. Don't touch strangers
102. Ask the pregnant woman first before feeling her belly
Okay back to the ones I didn't make up:
103. Ask before you touch someone's baby.
104. Ask before you pet someone's dog.
105. Ask before you borrow something.
106. When someone asks you "How are you?" You're supposed to say "fine" or "good" and not tell them about your gloomy day or your bad feelings.
107. When you're talking, look at the person every few minutes to see if they are looking at you. If they're not, then that means they are bored and not interested what you are saying.
108. Always stand an arm length away from people unless you're on a crowded bus or train or elevator.