Does anyone get attached to people?

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I do this with people I am really attracted to. I turn them into special interests. I hold them to a higher standard than others and even the littlest things they do wrong upset me.

It's actually screwed up 2 of my past friendships

wow, NTs really live in a bubble of their own....impressive.

I haven't viewed this thread in absolutely ages... Anywho, I can gladly say my representation of friendship/attachment has changed drastically since my reply on page 1. Whether for better or worse, is yet to be seen. Nowadays, much like how I described my "past" in my last post, I find myself getting rather quickly attached to people again. So much so, however, that I find myself incapable of moving outside the "bubble of attachment" and, thus, find it difficult to socialize with others as they are not in "that bubble". Like before, I find myself rarely taking advantage of friends unintentionally in order to "test" their trust - I have little idea why, and find it highly frustrating. My only thought is that my paranoia seems to be the cause of it.

I know how this is. I am Extremely attached to my close friends and whenever I go extended periods without them I start feeling depressed. Feels bad man.