Hocus Focus!! Do people tell you that you are Focusing?

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28 Feb 2012, 4:45 am

I get told by my family members that I am Focusing when im bringing up something I liked or that I watched and repeat myself over and over again on the same thing. Do you guys get similar impressions by others as well?



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28 Feb 2012, 4:48 am

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I get told by my family members that I am Focusing when im bringing up something I liked or that I watched and repeat myself over and over again on the same thing. Do you guys get similar impressions by others as well?


I thought focusing was a good thing :?


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28 Feb 2012, 4:48 am

Trying saying "shut up". Nah, tell them you need to concentrate



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28 Feb 2012, 5:46 am

sometimes people will comment on how much i concentrate when i get "chaught up"
if i talk about something i find interesting i will immediately change character from quite introverted to quite extroverted.


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28 Feb 2012, 6:42 am

Oodain wrote:
sometimes people will comment on how much i concentrate when i get "chaught up"
if i talk about something i find interesting i will immediately change character from quite introverted to quite extroverted.

sorry for being a grammar nazi but it is caught up and i totally agree nts` don't understand the concept focus unless told explicitly that you need to.



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28 Feb 2012, 6:56 am

Sometimes, but it's never true. I don't talk about things I like usually, I don't know how.

I can talk about things that 1) other people are talking about or 2) that I've been talking about with someone else before but when I talk about what I want to talk about, it's usually fairly short.

So, when I do my best to talk without letting the other person have a word in, it's to stop them from talking because I can't answer them if the ask more, I don't understand them or the conversation is too difficult for another reason.

People can't tell and will assume that I must now be doing a monologue and that I accidentally ignore them.

No, it's called "doing it on purpose". When I admit that I don't understand, people just go on and on and on to try to make me understand, then seem to get frustrated with me.


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28 Feb 2012, 7:10 am

When I'm out and about.


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28 Feb 2012, 8:24 am

I got called nuts the other day when my teenage son saw what I had done in mine craft.

In the workplace it gets noticed, it is a positive trait. As long as you are focusing on your work of course.

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28 Feb 2012, 11:12 am

I don't...understand this post.


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28 Feb 2012, 7:24 pm

Other times people will say I am dwelling on something and or going on and on. LOL i get rather confused at times sometimes people tell me I should focus on a subject then I do that, I get told to stop I am focusing too much. The world is such a confusing place. :?



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28 Feb 2012, 8:37 pm

Nah, most of the time people tell me the oppisite - they tell me to "snap out of it and pay attention!".