Jamesy wrote:
Do you agree that in western society if your a man and have AS your A LOT more screwed than a women who is an aspie. I believe as well that a women with aspergers has a very similar quality of life too how an NT women does yet there is a HUGE gulf between a aspie man compared too an NT man when it comes too being successfull in life. I think in general its disgraceful the way society treats men and people should realise that sexism in general is WRONG.
If your a man with AS you are the opposite of what is expected from men in todays society in general and that is a DEADLY characteristic. If your a women with AS then there is no point even dwelling on it becasue it will not affect how far you get in life as much as it would effect someone with dyslexia or ADHD.
Your thoughts on this? Hopefully in future generations society will change its ways but unfourtantly in our generation society is still stuck in stone age when it comes too values etc...
I totally disagree
As a 46 year old female diagnosed with Aspergers I get nothing but rejection off most people in society - a clear message that I'm 'lesser' than them, not matter how stupid they happen to be, due to my inability to project a sufficiently 'normal'/NT image and persona. I'm given the message that I'm just plain weird and people want to generally avoid me!
No way does society reward me or treat me as normal - quite the opposite in fact.
I've often thought men have far more leaway for eccentricity/difference whereas women are expected to look and act like someone off the TV or they can forget it! Society is far harsher on women who don't conform to it's requirements than men in my opinion.