relationship question for male and female aspie

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23 Sep 2012, 5:29 pm

this is only for straight aspie only (sorry gay,bi,asexuals)
what group would you say you are
(tell me if you are a male or female.)

A- You are or have been in good healthy relationship
B- You always are in very bad relationship. You always date jerks, b(tches.
c- You can't get date at all (this exclude asexual and people who have no interest in dating)
now I know some might have been in both good and bad relationship but if had more A type than b type you would answer A
and vice versa
d-if it's about 50/50 you can be in d group. equal amount of good and bad relationship.

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23 Sep 2012, 5:34 pm

Male. C.

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23 Sep 2012, 5:36 pm

I'm male. I answer B BUT I wouldn't say it was accurate to say they were all b*****s. A couple were for sure but if I'm honest more often than not I was equally/more to blame for my dysfunctional relationships.

This image says a lot about the history of my love life.

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23 Sep 2012, 5:46 pm

I'm an NT and I'm between B and C.

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23 Sep 2012, 5:52 pm

billiscool wrote:

I would vote for d. and the reason is as simple as that: The girl-friends I have been together with were no asholes.
(Although they did not understand me quite). Male

Now at the moment I am quite c:ish, too desperate...

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23 Sep 2012, 5:56 pm

I'm an aspie female and I've had both healthy and unhealthy relationships; more healthy than unhealthy - you don't have a category for this

This was because I put myself out there and actively searched for partners (mainly online though my longest relationship was with a person I met via a bar job), made the most of opportunities that came along and took the good with the bad

I didn't spend my time whining about how all the odds were stacked against me on internet forums

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23 Sep 2012, 6:03 pm

nessa238 wrote:

Ok I should be clear if you have been in more healthy relationship than bad ones you would be an ''A''
If you have been in more bad relationship than good ones you would be an ''b''
If you have been in around the same amount of good and bad relationship you would be an ''d''

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23 Sep 2012, 6:09 pm

billiscool wrote:

nessa238 wrote:

Let's have some details about your relationships Bill

And what is it about you exactly that makes you 'cool' hmmm?

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