mrL wrote:
Regardless of what is happening in our lives, we aspies usually end up thinking about suicide. It could be during the happiest moments or the saddest. It often occurs at random. I usually think about suicide when I am happiest because I know the moment won't last. Thoughts of suicide are a daily thing for me and like many Aspies its not something that all the drugs in the world will fix. So how often do you think about suicide and what usually causes it?
For me, it's been every single morning when I get up for the past few years. When the workday Is slow or depressing sometimes i'll think about it the whole day through until I go back to bed. Life used to be so beautiful for me when I was younger. I had enough family around I was able to just coast along other people's happiness and feel happy off of that. The adult world brings much disappointments for aspies. I'm in my 30's but I remember watching this old 70's Disney movie "Pete's Dragon" there's a song in there that says there's a place for everyone on earth.. it seems that in the 2010's there is not. Either you have to be high-performing person or you get sidelined and used and abused by society. I want a family. I want to get married and have kids, but as I'm getting older it seems less and less likely with higher chances of any kids being born with mental disabilities (as parents get older). I saw my father's life with Asperger's. It's been so hard and traumatizing. He was away most of the time trying to make a living on the road while I was raised by my mom who was complaining about how he's always absent and doing the wrong thing. Since my mother passed he's been extremely lonely and depressed. He probably has the same thoughts I do every day, altho he does tell me he wished I had my life together better and made more money so I could help him out. I feel like such a failure I just want to disappear sometimes. I gave up on trying to do small-talk or make friends. My old man, as distant and hard to talk to as he is, is the last friend I have left. The future does not look good for me.