Tawaki wrote:
Cliff note version on SPD vs ASD. People with Autism want to communicate. They want to have social interaction, but are thwart by their brain being wired differently. Now, the ASD person may get burnt out by bad experiences, and start avoiding people. The SPD people really have no use or desire for interaction. They can read a social situation perfectly well, but it's more of a why bother?
One is a mental illness and the other a developmental disability. My shrink says you can not have ASD and SPD. The motivation to avoid people is entirely different.
I don't think that's quite right. I don't want to communicate as such. I'd love to communicate with the right one or two people if I could find them. But beyond that I have no urge to communicate. I have an IQ of 145 and am only able to connect at an intellectual level (not emotionally), and I find most people boring. Surely there's a good deal of schizoid tendencies in the mix here that aren't based on "bad experiences" (which of course I made like everyone on the spectrum). I think many people on the spectrum are perfectly content not to communicate (unless it's with the right people) and not to have social interactions.