will i ever get a girfriend/married

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random1
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04 Feb 2016, 4:57 pm

will i even tho im a bit different then most people?

im kinda still young but i kinda want a answer for this.

are there any people on here who are married or has a girlfriend?

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Idealist
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04 Feb 2016, 5:47 pm

random1 wrote:

will i even tho I'm a bit different then most people?

Do you have any expectations or standards? If not, then you should have pretty easy time finding someone.

random1 wrote:

are there any people on here who are married or has a girlfriend?

I was married three times, currently I'm unmarried, but I have several Boyfriends/Girlfriends that I'm partnered with.

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kraftiekortie
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04 Feb 2016, 8:05 pm

I'm pretty different from most people.

I'm married right now.

I've had a few serious relationships and one previous engagement.

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04 Feb 2016, 8:48 pm

There are plenty of people with high functioning autism who have a girlfriend/boyfriend or have been married a long time. And perhaps even a few with severe autism. So yes, there is hope that you will get married.

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04 Feb 2016, 9:01 pm

<--- Missed the marriage boat. Oh well.

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superpentil
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04 Feb 2016, 9:04 pm

Ask The Magic Conch™.

Seriously though maybe. I've had a couple somehow. Though I'd rather not talk about it.

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04 Feb 2016, 9:08 pm

redrobin62 wrote:

<--- Missed the marriage boat. Oh well.

my husband was 59 when he got married for the first time. to me. i was 52. my first marriage, too.

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05 Feb 2016, 3:42 am

I have other mental & some physical disabilities limiting me with lots of things in addition to my Asepergers. I've been ilviging with my 3rd girlfriend for over 3 years now. She's also on the spectrum & has other issues besides Aspergers. I met her on this forum.

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05 Feb 2016, 6:19 am

Aspies take longer to develop social skills. As romantic relationships require the most amount of skill, most Aspies get married later in life, so I wouldn't worry about your lack of success at a young age. You will have plenty of opportunities later in life for relationships.

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