Where can I find an online Adult AS Survival guide?

Page 1 of 1 [ 8 posts ] 

Chimchar
Toucan
Toucan

User avatar

Joined: 14 Feb 2008
Age: 34
Gender: Female
Posts: 286

11 Apr 2008, 10:17 am

I'm looking for something that can help me deal with my AS. I want to learn social skils, organization, how to get around in life. I'm an adult now, I want to learn how to be sucessful in the real world. Jobs, marrages, relationships, parenting etc. How does an Aspie deal with life? How can he solve problems?

I need an online survival guide that's not biased. Something that I can print out and read.

By the way, is this one good?

http://en.wikibooks.org/wiki/A_survival ... _necessary

I read it and it makes no sense to me at all.



Izaak
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 10 Jun 2007
Age: 43
Gender: Male
Posts: 981
Location: Perth, Western Australia

11 Apr 2008, 10:29 am

That's because it is stupidly ridiculous... I would very seriously consider trying to forget what you read there...

Wrongplanet can be a good "online" survival guide. Just ask a question if you have a problem.

The original link to Marc Segar's guide is here: http://www.asperger-marriage.info/survg ... tents.html
He is mentioned in that wiki book, though his guide is a lot better... and doesn't have advice like: "To be able to "defeat" your autism spectrum problems, you must be able to think like a non-autistic."

As for full on... I would suggest just asking here... I don't know of any other online things... as for hard copy I can't recommend Tony Atwood's books enough. They are great. Require an actual purchase though.



xyzyxx
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 7 Aug 2007
Gender: Male
Posts: 526
Location: Iowa

11 Apr 2008, 10:33 am

Coping: A Survival Guide for People with Asperger Syndrome

http://www-users.cs.york.ac.uk/~alistai ... eword.html



Warsie
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 3 Apr 2008
Age: 33
Gender: Male
Posts: 2,542
Location: Chicago, IL, USA

11 Apr 2008, 10:38 am

The closest thing to that I know of was "The Well-Cultured Anonymous" by people who go to *chan sites. It may have a lot of chan memes/references but it's still good. I read some of it and well...try it.

I chose this as the stereotypical /b/tard is kind've like an autistic person, nerdy, not too social, etc. But /b/tards can be meaner

wikichan link (outdated)
http://www.wikichan.org/index.php/The_W ... _Anonymous

newer site updated. just clicky through
http://www.wellcultured.com/

EDIT: just ignore the illegal stuff if it's there and you don't want to. Don't want anyone going to jail ("Partyvanned")


_________________
I am a Star Wars Fan, Warsie here.
Masterdebating on chi-city's south side.......!


Chimchar
Toucan
Toucan

User avatar

Joined: 14 Feb 2008
Age: 34
Gender: Female
Posts: 286

11 Apr 2008, 11:24 am

these are useful links. Thank you. Is this a good idea to look for those guides?



Warsie
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 3 Apr 2008
Age: 33
Gender: Male
Posts: 2,542
Location: Chicago, IL, USA

11 Apr 2008, 11:32 am

Chimchar wrote:


I looked over it, it can make sense but you're probably tripped off by how it is phrased. Also, I don't agree with all of it. But I can understand where he's "coming from"


_________________
I am a Star Wars Fan, Warsie here.
Masterdebating on chi-city's south side.......!


Zsazsa
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 19 Apr 2007
Gender: Female
Posts: 1,041
Location: Upstate New York, USA

11 Apr 2008, 1:47 pm

There is a very good book to obtain..."Solutions For Adults With AS: Maximizing The Benefits, Minimizing The Drawbacks To Achieve Success" by Juanita Lovett, Ph.D ...and which you may find helpful.



Kaleido
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 18 Feb 2007
Age: 65
Gender: Female
Posts: 2,615

11 Apr 2008, 2:41 pm

Zsazsa wrote:
There is a very good book to obtain..."Solutions For Adults With AS: Maximizing The Benefits, Minimizing The Drawbacks To Achieve Success" by Juanita Lovett, Ph.D ...and which you may find helpful.

I have that one, its quite good in places.