My boyfriend.... slapped me.

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Anyone that gets angry and can't control themselves needs to take a long hard look at themselves and get some anger management skills.

He's looking into therapy, so with me gone or not, at least there is that. I feel unfair accepting the description of him "beating" me. I mean I've been with a guy who beat the s**t out of me and it was a lot different than a single slap. I think he knows I'm leaving and regrets the situation but he doesn't blame me.

I had serious anger issues when I was sixteen and slapped that teacher, but he was feeling me up whilst threatening to fail me if we couldn't work something else out. Self-control was a huge part of it, because what I wanted to do was stab him and there was an envelope opener within my grasp. I think it was a normal reaction for a sixteen year old girl, anger issues or none.

That is just not on! You should leave him NOW!

Yes I know that some of you may have read a few things that I've felt like doing to girls who wouldn't date me, but to actually carry them out and TO SLAP YOU???? Well that's another thing all together.

I myself am a man and I would NEVER harm my GF, as not only do I love her to much (cos she's my sexy angel) but that kind of thing is just plan wrong.


I hope that you make the right decision for yourself.


Goodbye Till Next Time.

Leave and NEVER look back. Slapping is abuse. It's just the tip of the iceberg. Slapping now. Punching later. Broken nose, broken bones, broken, missing, abscessed teeth, etc... HORRIBLE anxiety, feeling like you must walk on eggs everytime you express an opinion. That's not a life. That's a death. The death of you either physically or spiritually. Seek counseling because you may be one of those people who gravitate toward abusers. People who do that have histories of PTSD. I was one. I got help and lots changed. It doesn't matter what kind of help your partner or hopefully x-partner gets. You're two VERY separate people. Get help for YOU.

f**k it. I'm staying.





I just wanted to see if anyone would be any more aware of this post than they were my last two which said I was leaving. I'm done posting in this thread, I thought I was having some kind of conversation until people were blatantly ignoring my last couple of posts.

I'm done. Have fun with the thread, peeps.

Fin.

You ask people for advice, and then tell people to have fun with it? To be quite blunt, I have huge anger issues... I'm probably the angriest person I know, but I would NOT do that to a girl. We told you the truth. The guy is a piece of s**t and you should get away from him. But you've already got your mind made up. "Have fun" being a total cliché.

I am so sorry this happened to you. I gather that you really don't want to leave because this seems so out of character for him, but you don't want it to become his character either. Because it is out of character for him, you are not sure if you are safe or not. Is this what you're trying to say?

And please empathize with everyone advising you. They are VERY concerned about your safety.

I think it matters that it's pre-meditated.
I get mad spur of the moment, but never plan to react the way I do.
But either way, the OP should leave.