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21 Dec 2009, 9:44 pm

Me and my imaginary girlfriend Andrea are going to have our wedding on Sunday! (yeah right) So who else has imaginary girlfriends?

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21 Dec 2009, 10:16 pm

My friend used to have an imaginary boyfriend in her dreams but it started getting creepy so she had to break it off. :lol:

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21 Dec 2009, 10:31 pm

I've had imaginary versions of women I liked... they were basically the same as the real women they were based on, except they liked me back :cry:

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21 Dec 2009, 11:33 pm

I used to get crushes on women that I liked, and had imaginary relationships with them. Sometimes, fantasy is better than the real thing. :wink:

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22 Dec 2009, 12:03 am

yeah I think all of us men have done this at least once. Ive fantasized about women ive liked alot, hell, even a few times it got to the point of thinking an anime character looked cute, i will construct a mental image of how she would look in real life type of fantasizing. Whats funnier is doing the fantasizing right as you are trying to fall asleep, It makes for some REALLLY nice dreams

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22 Dec 2009, 12:09 am

If I have a crush on a girl I usual imagine me and her cuddling because it helps relax me before I go to sleep.

Does that count?

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22 Dec 2009, 12:22 am

Nothing beats the fantasy. Here is a wedding present: It's an imaginary trip to Bermuda.

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22 Dec 2009, 12:47 am

gnosislogicemotion wrote:

If I have a crush on a girl I usual imagine me and her cuddling because it helps relax me before I go to sleep.

Does that count?

Without being an expert, I would have to say this wouldn't. The person you think about is 100% real. I do the same with a girl I like as well

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22 Dec 2009, 12:56 am

yes but she tried to kill me and turn me into chocolate
then things collapsed

3 minutes had gone by, and the roller coaster ride was over

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22 Dec 2009, 2:28 am

Keith wrote:

gnosislogicemotion wrote:

If I have a crush on a girl I usual imagine me and her cuddling because it helps relax me before I go to sleep.

Does that count?

Without being an expert, I would have to say this wouldn't. The person you think about is 100% real. I do the same with a girl I like as well

I do this too. The girl is real but the rest is imaginary. We've been together for several years now.

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22 Dec 2009, 8:47 am

Idk, what's the difference between imaginary and fictional? I've had relationships with Mystique, Psylocke, Shota, and several dozen truly imaginary characters created by myself.

But yes, the imaginary relationship is always extremely satisfying, though wildly different and completely unpredictable (at least for me, any character I create within my imagination becomes a non-controlled entity within my mind)

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22 Dec 2009, 9:05 am

Once, I fantasized about turning male and having a relationship with a straight girl. It was great until she found out I started out female. She slapped me, said, "I'm not a lesbian!", and left. All my fantasies end badly.

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22 Dec 2009, 9:47 am

wow, i've never had an imaginary one.
& i didn't know it was a common practice among you guys

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22 Dec 2009, 10:30 am

Seanmw wrote:

wow, i've never had an imaginary one.
& i didn't know it was a common practice among you guys

I guess you're not as desperate as some of us, are you? :lol:

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22 Dec 2009, 11:20 am

Seanmw wrote:

wow, i've never had an imaginary one.
& i didn't know it was a common practice among you guys

to be fair mine was a stoned haze :lol:

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22 Dec 2009, 3:27 pm

I have an imaginary relationship with
a person who is real.

My imaginary GF likes me,
is sexy, talks a lot, not chatty,
has seizures like me, and wants
to be with her own family when she wants to.

My imaginary GF is independent
and we allow each other to do "our own thing."
We go to school together and the relationship is fun.

IRL, I don't know...although we have encountered each other a few times.

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