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Would you ever enlist yourself in any match-making agency / dating site?
Yes 20%  20%  [ 20 ]
Yes 20%  20%  [ 20 ]
Never 13%  13%  [ 13 ]
Never 13%  13%  [ 13 ]
Um... I'd think about it but... 18%  18%  [ 18 ]
Um... I'd think about it but... 18%  18%  [ 18 ]
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15 Apr 2006, 5:36 pm

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Do you mean whining? On top of being fat I also have too much stomach acid so I often don't know if I'm hungry, scared or just have to go to the toilet. I can't just go out too much, with my reputation (people think I'm both gay and ret*d) I have to watch my every step. I just wait for a bottle or a rock every time I pass people.


Are you starving to death in Mugabe's Zimbabwe? Are you worried about getting murdered on the way to work in Iraq? Are you having a broken bottle forced into your anus in Karimov's Uzbekistan? No? Then you may consider yourself lucky.

Many others here are getting increasingly exasperated and irritated by your pathetic 'most oppressed person ever' attitude and every time you post you make fellow contributors increasingly irritated. The world doesn't revolve around you. Nor does it revolve around me. Or any of us here. We are people, plain and simple.

Don't misunderstand me. I'm not a super-confident bloke myself. I have my own social problems, as do most of us here. But I'm making an effort. You could start tomorrow with beginning to make your own. Or you could fester. It is your choice; I cannot make it for you.

A year ago, I would have responded in much the same way as you do. Sleep on it.

It's up to you.

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OMG---someone with some f**king balls. Lonermutant, you listen to this guy. Don't give us another whiny, infantile post about how "I've been bullied! Waaaah! I'm fat and didn't finish high school! I only want porn sex, no woman will want me!" do us all a favor, get your fat ass off the computer, and grow the f**k up. Seriously, there are billions of people in the world who have had a much harder life than you, made do with much less, and achieved far more than you in life. They also do it without whining, or sitting around feeling sorry for themselves. You seem like an extremely self-indulgent perpetual victim, and I feel sorry for anyone who has to read your posts on this board or any other. You decide the quality of your life. You can't scapegoat your pathetic existence on having Asperger's Syndrome, this is all you. Imagine how hard it must be for someone in a wheelchair, or a kid with cancer? You ever see them on the internet whining 24 hours a day about how hard life is for them? No, because they have guts, courage, and human spirit. And then there's you. You have options and a life enviable of most of the world. Yet here you are whining on the internet. Get a life...


Hurrah! Someone with a bit of sense.



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15 Apr 2006, 5:52 pm

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Lonermutant: Maybe if you stopped being such a pathetic whinger for a bit and try to sort yourself out, you'll feel better. I was like that for years, but I'm beginning to sort myself out. Get yourself on a diet and out the house - it's beginning to work for me, and I'm a very overweight guy. I don't miss the fatty foods hardly at all, strangely enough, and I've cut them entirely out of my diet. I feel better with every passing day.

Whinging on a forum won't help to ease your problems. Only you can do that, mate. And I'm sure if you decided to people on here would help you every step of the way.

I leave it to you.

OMG---someone with some f**king balls. Lonermutant, you listen to this guy. Don't give us another whiny, infantile post about how "I've been bullied! Waaaah! I'm fat and didn't finish high school! I only want porn sex, no woman will want me!" do us all a favor, get your fat ass off the computer, and grow the f**k up. Seriously, there are billions of people in the world who have had a much harder life than you, made do with much less, and achieved far more than you in life. They also do it without whining, or sitting around feeling sorry for themselves. You seem like an extremely self-indulgent perpetual victim, and I feel sorry for anyone who has to read your posts on this board or any other. You decide the quality of your life. You can't scapegoat your pathetic existence on having Asperger's Syndrome, this is all you. Imagine how hard it must be for someone in a wheelchair, or a kid with cancer? You ever see them on the internet whining 24 hours a day about how hard life is for them? No, because they have guts, courage, and human spirit. And then there's you. You have options and a life enviable of most of the world. Yet here you are whining on the internet. Get a life...


You seem to have a way of getting people back on to their feet. I love your style. :roll: Could you even be less sympathic. You might get life your self. Or I know what you might stop reading these posts if you just went some where else. :twisted:


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15 Apr 2006, 6:33 pm

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You seem to have a way of getting people back on to their feet. I love your style. :roll: Could you even be less sympathic. You might get life your self. Or I know what you might stop reading these posts if you just went some where else. :twisted:


It think you've spent too much time playing Final Fantasy XXV and not enough time gaining actual life experience. Maybe if you learned to suck it up too, you wouldn't have to start threads asking where to meet a woman outside of the internet, just a thought please don't flame me :lol:



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15 Apr 2006, 6:51 pm

Space wrote:
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You seem to have a way of getting people back on to their feet. I love your style. :roll: Could you even be less sympathic. You might get life your self. Or I know what you might stop reading these posts if you just went some where else. :twisted:


It think you've spent too much time playing Final Fantasy XXV and not enough time gaining actual life experience. Maybe if you learned to suck it up too, you wouldn't have to start threads asking where to meet a woman outside of the internet, just a thought please don't flame me :lol:


Oh and that's supposed to hurt? Maybe if you've lived my life or lonermutant's life you would actually see where we are coming from. Oh I so love your witty and striaght to the no quite there point. I'm so unfazed by your comments. You're just a foolish man trying to live a nonexist life. Ha I don't think you are living a life to live for. :twisted:


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15 Apr 2006, 6:56 pm

Oh one more things Space. (If there's enough space in that head at all to fill that cavern of a head.) You know this is the Romatic Relationship forum not a get tough of and make other people be as strong as you are. Hey not all people can be like you and none want to be like you. So maybe you should try to please other people on somewhere else on this site because this place just isn't working for you. How about you just leave Lonermutant alone and me as well. :evil: Back off!


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15 Apr 2006, 7:15 pm

you're mad :lol: sorry I go you so worked up :lol:



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15 Apr 2006, 7:43 pm

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you're mad :lol: sorry I go you so worked up :lol:


Yeah you go. That's what I get for my life. Even though it seems that I want people to go away doesn't really mean I want people to go. Laugh all you want Space. :roll: I could care less.


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15 Apr 2006, 7:52 pm

Shut up tigerfire the guy has a point.

All lonermutant does is whinge, when he has the power to do something about it. He could get an escort but doesn't. He asks for our advice and doens't take it. imo he need to stop whining.

Another letsgoblues in the making.



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15 Apr 2006, 8:13 pm

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Shut up tigerfire the guy has a point.

All lonermutant does is whinge, when he has the power to do something about it. He could get an escort but doesn't. He asks for our advice and doens't take it. imo he need to stop whining.

Another letsgoblues in the making.


I went a little over board didn't I hale_bopp? I just wanted to let that guy know. My hands are off and plus it was a little bit of an act. Thank you hale_bopp I actually really needed that. Some one to knock some sense into me. Thanks I needed that.


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15 Apr 2006, 8:16 pm

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Another letsgoblues in the making.


Could you provide a concise summary of who this user was please? Not all of us have been here from the beginning. ;)



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15 Apr 2006, 8:42 pm

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Another letsgoblues in the making.


Could you provide a concise summary of who this user was please? Not all of us have been here from the beginning. ;)


Really? Well let me run that by you. Lonermutant was complainning on how he can't find some overweight woman to have sex with. Me and Florescent was trying to help this guy out but it didn't seem to work. I thought I could defend this guy from Space but why was I trying to defend this guy? Now I think about it why was I trying to help? I'm not as bad off as lonermutant was.


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15 Apr 2006, 9:04 pm

TigerFire wrote:
Tequila wrote:
hale_bopp wrote:
Another letsgoblues in the making.


Could you provide a concise summary of who this user was please? Not all of us have been here from the beginning. ;)


Really? Well let me run that by you. Lonermutant was complainning on how he can't find some overweight woman to have sex with. Me and Florescent was trying to help this guy out but it didn't seem to work. I thought I could defend this guy from Space but why was I trying to defend this guy? Now I think about it why was I trying to help? I'm not as bad off as lonermutant was.


I wondered who letsgoblues was, not about the thread, though that's also interesting. Cheers for that. :)



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16 Apr 2006, 3:23 pm

I strongly agree with Space. Being an Aspie is NOT a legitimate excuse to be pathetic. And it is never too late to start making changes to your life and fixing it. s**t happens, deal with it, and stop blaming everyone else for something that is YOUR OWN responsibility. Yes it is a hell of a lot of hard work to deal with it, but it is ultimately very rewarding. It takes time, effort and perseverance, but it is well worth it, and even if it is hard work, it is still more enjoyable and self-satisfying than defeating yourself by not even trying, or constantly complaining while doing nothing to solve it, etc.



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16 Apr 2006, 3:45 pm

I agree with you emp with all your wise words.


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16 Apr 2006, 9:18 pm

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I agree with you emp with all your wise words.


Told you I was right :D



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16 Apr 2006, 9:26 pm

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I agree with you emp with all your wise words.


Told you I was right :D


Sometimes I have to hear it from the opposite sex to make sure it was true.


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