Tyri0n wrote:
Aspie man here. Probably not in most cases.
I think an aspergirl who can act NT and dress fashionably would be perfect. She can't keep it up and gets exhausted, no problem, I'm the same way and would understand. Someone with severe social dysfunction, wears glasses, lack of self-care, or unemployable/friendless, or very geeky, probably not. Yes, I am a little shallow, but I try pretty hard in certain areas, and I would expect similar effort from someone I'd consider dating.
Date an NT girl, then, dude. You're asking far too much NT-ness/conformity of an AS chick, and I don't think that's fair.
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