Why do guys hate fat chicks?

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Sorry man

I guess I have unconventional taste because most of the "super model" type women aren't attractive to me at all, but I actually prefer fuller figured women.

I just like them fat.

My boner is less strong when they lose weight in a lot of cases. I think quite a few women (though not all, by any means) women are better-looking as BBWs than when they have slimmed down.

I don't get it. I remember hearing some guys talk about their dating standards and the phrase "If you can't lift her, don't date her." I've been struggling with my weight since I was 10. I've been dieting and exercising and I feel that all of my efforts have been for naught. I'm 5'4" and shy of 250 pounds. I feel like a tiny linebacker most of the time. D:

Women hit on me but I'm straight so it's awkward. If I was bi, I'd be happy with my lady fans. I'm also an aspie so I feel that in combination with my weight makes me completely undesirable. I sometimes feel that without resorting to liposuction that I'll never be good enough for guys my age. Guys never want me, they want my friends.

Guys complain about pretty skinny girls cheating on them but ignore the nice girls that would treat them better just because we don't meet their standards. I guess guys could say it about women too but I feel like women are more willing to settle with a quirky guy who may not be attractive (I see it all the time) than a man wanting to be with a fat chick. :/


7/15 Update: I figured I would post this here so everybody can see that I'm actually doing something about my condition. See? I'm not a total hypocrite. XD

Day three of my new diet and exercise regiment. I'm feeling pretty good about how things are going.

7am: 20 minute brisk walk (wakes me up with the fresh morning air)
Breakfast: bowl of low-fat granola (or blueberry oatmeal, depending on my cravings)
9am: 15-30 minutes on the exercise bike at 70-80 rotations per minute. (My legs feel like lead afterwards but I feel SO GOOD.)
Lunch (11 or noon) : Some form of low-fat sammich (yay flatbreads!) or egg substitute with reduced fat cheese and hot sauce (I LOVE Frankie's Red Hot Sauce).
1pm: 30 minute core workout with 5 pound kettle bell (I'll upgrade to 10 next week, when I'm used to the movements).
Dinner (4pm or 5pm): Some low-cal low fat dinner I make with grilled meats accompanied with a salad of some variety. (Strawberry and Spinach salad is my favorite!) Smile
7-8pm: 50 cal Fruit pop, homemade smoothie or a cup of yogurt for dessert. ^_^

After all this, I feel sore but it feels good. My head is in a happy place. As far as the food goes, I don't feel deprived of anything really. The commercials for restaurant food don't even tempt me anymore. ^_^

Guys complain about pretty skinny girls cheating on them but ignore the nice girls that would treat them better just because we don't meet their standards.

Really? So fat doesn't signal 'unhealthy' to you??

Most of this thread was before my time here and I'm not about to go read it all now, but I'm pretty sure most guys don't hate fat chicks, as such (at least not for being fat), they just aren't attracted to them. There are some exceptions, though, myself included.



Is there really a correlation between how nice a girl is and how fat she is? I'd be surprised, but if anyone has any data, I'm all ears... err, eyes.



Whatever it signals is sub-conscious, but apparently it doesn't signal "unattractive".

Really? So fat doesn't signal 'unhealthy' to you??

Some men that like plump ladies say"more cushin' for the pushin.'
I'd rather a man had a few extra pounds than be on the frail looking side.