14 Oct 2010, 6:12 pm
14 Oct 2010, 6:13 pm
Craig28 wrote:
I asked a women out and she turned me down. You see, she was in the same social class as I was - she was a hairdresser and did things like others do socially. So, I ask, what made her think she was better then me?
I'll tell you - her looks. She is drop dead gorgeous. So, she thinks she is sooooo damm hot, even claiming that I wanted only to get with her to bang her brains out. Well, thats what she thinks, all I wanted was to take her out. No hidden meaning, no agenda, but the feminist drivel strikes again and makes another man out to be vengeful against womanhood.
I isn't my fault that she is a stupid b***h.
I'll tell you - her looks. She is drop dead gorgeous. So, she thinks she is sooooo damm hot, even claiming that I wanted only to get with her to bang her brains out. Well, thats what she thinks, all I wanted was to take her out. No hidden meaning, no agenda, but the feminist drivel strikes again and makes another man out to be vengeful against womanhood.
I isn't my fault that she is a stupid b***h.
The fact you think she's a stupid b***h because she told you no, convinces me she was right to turn you down. WTH would you flat ask someone "what made her think she was better then me?" . We're allowed to tell you no, for ANY reason, and anyone that attractive has enough suiters to look for qualitys other then just personal wealth, social status or even looks. Frankly if you're the hottest woman in the room, sure you get all the attention, but it's all from the as*holes who are only looking at looks. Of course you're gunna turn down 9/10s of them.
Did it ever occur to you that she's picked up the as*hole vibe from you? did you treat the ugly girl at th counter just as well? Did you talk to her about anything other then dating? Did you have any reason to approach her other then her appearance?
14 Oct 2010, 6:17 pm
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
mechanicalgirl39 wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
mechanicalgirl39 wrote:
@Face of Boo:
My point is, it's all very well saying you should like someone for other things than their looks, but you can't force yourself into being attracted to someone if they're not physically attractive. I can like someone, I can respect him, I can form a good friendship with him, but if he isn't physically attractive to me, sorry, there's jack-poop I can do about that. Sexuality is a physical thing as well as a social and emotional one whether you like it or not.
My point is, it's all very well saying you should like someone for other things than their looks, but you can't force yourself into being attracted to someone if they're not physically attractive. I can like someone, I can respect him, I can form a good friendship with him, but if he isn't physically attractive to me, sorry, there's jack-poop I can do about that. Sexuality is a physical thing as well as a social and emotional one whether you like it or not.
ok now, enough of this useless debate already. When you're gonna send me your photo?
Shut up you abusive pervert.
Men like you are the reason I instinctively reach for my lock knife when I'm out alone and I see a male silhouette.
Hey I am not even of that kind :-/! !
Besides, I just wanted to know if you're as half hot as I am, just curiosity!!
Besides, why so serious??:p
Ohhh right. I didn't realize you were joking. LOL.
I'll PM you one if you go first, lol
14 Oct 2010, 6:21 pm
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14 Oct 2010, 6:21 pm
mechanicalgirl39 wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
mechanicalgirl39 wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
mechanicalgirl39 wrote:
@Face of Boo:
My point is, it's all very well saying you should like someone for other things than their looks, but you can't force yourself into being attracted to someone if they're not physically attractive. I can like someone, I can respect him, I can form a good friendship with him, but if he isn't physically attractive to me, sorry, there's jack-poop I can do about that. Sexuality is a physical thing as well as a social and emotional one whether you like it or not.
My point is, it's all very well saying you should like someone for other things than their looks, but you can't force yourself into being attracted to someone if they're not physically attractive. I can like someone, I can respect him, I can form a good friendship with him, but if he isn't physically attractive to me, sorry, there's jack-poop I can do about that. Sexuality is a physical thing as well as a social and emotional one whether you like it or not.
ok now, enough of this useless debate already. When you're gonna send me your photo?
Shut up you abusive pervert.
Men like you are the reason I instinctively reach for my lock knife when I'm out alone and I see a male silhouette.
Hey I am not even of that kind :-/! !
Besides, I just wanted to know if you're as half hot as I am, just curiosity!!
Besides, why so serious??:p
Ohhh right. I didn't realize you were joking. LOL.
I'll PM you one if you go first, lol
I won't , you have hurt my feelings
14 Oct 2010, 6:24 pm
14 Oct 2010, 6:28 pm
Lets see, Nicola the hairdresser was the first, then Amber the shop assistant was the second and Rachel the pub worker was the third. What do they all have in common? Wrong attitude. Instead of being honest, they started to play mind games.
Now, how the f**k should I react?
It made me have bisexual tendencies and now I leaning towards uprotected gay sex. Great! 
14 Oct 2010, 6:30 pm
14 Oct 2010, 6:31 pm
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
zen_mistress wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Greendragon wrote:
Then mechanicalgirl39 you are not in that group who does obviously.
No reason to be ashamed. It is just the law of nature to find the better suited mate. That humans chose partially based on monetary value is a human trait. There are just as many men who are looking for the mate who provides the better chance with children and providing a good home.
Rather like the female bird who has two males and both are trying to prove to her they have the better nest. Guess who wins? The one with the better built nest in the safer place.
Did I say it was a smart way to find a mate? For the birds yes since her young have a better chance of surviving. For us? Nope. Look at our divorce rates. It obviously isn't working but that scramble to get to the top is there none the less. It is simply how women have decided to chose a mate.
All you can do is remain true to who you are and enjoy life as it comes. Either you find a mate or you don't ... but what others do is not affecting how you carry yourself.
No reason to be ashamed. It is just the law of nature to find the better suited mate. That humans chose partially based on monetary value is a human trait. There are just as many men who are looking for the mate who provides the better chance with children and providing a good home.
Rather like the female bird who has two males and both are trying to prove to her they have the better nest. Guess who wins? The one with the better built nest in the safer place.
Did I say it was a smart way to find a mate? For the birds yes since her young have a better chance of surviving. For us? Nope. Look at our divorce rates. It obviously isn't working but that scramble to get to the top is there none the less. It is simply how women have decided to chose a mate.
All you can do is remain true to who you are and enjoy life as it comes. Either you find a mate or you don't ... but what others do is not affecting how you carry yourself.
nah....female birds are usually smarter than that, they mate with the stronger male and then they chose the male with the better nest as the social father of her offspring.
In that way they get the best genes + best father/partner.Im not really sure how true all that crap is anyway. My friend grew up on a sheep farm and she told me that she observed that many ewes seemed to prefer a more gentle ram to a super hyped, aggressive one. When you look at animal populations, the majority of the genes are often passed on by the average male members.
The alpha males do pass on a lot of their genes, but if too many aggressive genes are passed on it actually destabilises the social group, it is actually to a social animal's benefit to pass the average male's genes on, otherwise the group would spend all its time beating the crap out of each other and wouldnt have the time or energy to do other stuff.
The female birds' strategy has been scientifically proven.
Besides, alpha males doesn't always mean the strongest/most aggressive male but he's usually the most adaptive to survive.
It is not as clear cut as it looks. The average Joe is the real winner in the life battle. Many aggressive alpha males spend their lives fighting, and they end up having elevated stress levels. They therefore dont live as long.
However there is a subset of alpha males who do have lower stress levels, and they are the ones which are more psychologically stable and though will win a fight, dont wish to continue fighting afterwards. The alpha males that are more aggressive and spiteful end up losing out to these males in the long run.
The research of Robert Sapolsky has come to some interesting conclusions about this. Unfortunately I cant find the information on the internet which I would like to post...
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14 Oct 2010, 6:51 pm
Craig28 wrote:
I also can say no to a women. Get me?!
Yeah I get you. Please go be with your hollywood star you shining human for a man.
14 Oct 2010, 6:53 pm
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