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It sounds like he does care about you and means that he wants to be friends for now. I don't see any harm in enjoying the company of each other perhaps later on things will happen so you can be together again.

thanks ,i hope so.

So he had some family issues, and then told you to concentrate on his family? He is probably stressed, and feels that he wouldn't have time to have a proper relationship with you - he doesn't believe he'd be able to hold up his end of things. Without specific details, I can't say how correct he is to say that. It's possible that if you try, you could help relieve some of his stress and thus help him with his issues. Conversely, if his assumption was correct, you would feel upset or abandoned by him, and the relationship would end. A relationship shouldn't feel like a career.

Distance in relationships I have observed is very difficult.

I've been in supposed relationships where I pushed people away but still tried to talk to them. In my case I didn't think it would work out but I wanted to be friends, I appreciated the conversations. Maybe he still appreciates you in that way too.

Hope it helps!