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27 Feb 2011, 2:30 pm

flamemasterelan wrote:
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In a club i've always found there's hardly any talking, well when I used to pick guys up in bars anyway.
It was more just 'hi, can i buy you a drink?', then we danced and then we went somewhere to make out and whatever.

I was about to ask where these bars were when I realized it was probably the males offering to buy you a drink.

Oh, fantasy world where the women buy me alcohol, when will I find you?


Gay bar

Just be prepared for anything though.



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27 Feb 2011, 2:33 pm

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Clubs aren't for the socially inept. Period.


I've had many a good time in clubs as I've been with friends. I was out for my brothers birthday last night anyway so we went where he wanted.


For getting dates or hookups or relationship or whatever, I mean.



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27 Feb 2011, 2:34 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
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Clubs aren't for the socially inept. Period.


I've had many a good time in clubs as I've been with friends. I was out for my brothers birthday last night anyway so we went where he wanted.


For getting dates or hookups or relationship or whatever, I mean.


seriously? drunk chicks are everywhere in clubs.



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27 Feb 2011, 2:39 pm

Quartz11 wrote:
flamemasterelan wrote:
emlion wrote:
In a club i've always found there's hardly any talking, well when I used to pick guys up in bars anyway.
It was more just 'hi, can i buy you a drink?', then we danced and then we went somewhere to make out and whatever.

I was about to ask where these bars were when I realized it was probably the males offering to buy you a drink.

Oh, fantasy world where the women buy me alcohol, when will I find you?


Gay bar

Just be prepared for anything though.

I believe I specifically said women, sir.



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27 Feb 2011, 3:15 pm

emlion wrote:
seriously? drunk chicks are everywhere in clubs.


I can assure you that doesn't guarantee success!



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27 Feb 2011, 3:16 pm

Mark198423 wrote:
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seriously? drunk chicks are everywhere in clubs.


I can assure you that doesn't guarantee success!


of course not, but it ups the chances if you're forward.



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27 Feb 2011, 5:37 pm

Quartz11 wrote:
flamemasterelan wrote:
emlion wrote:
In a club i've always found there's hardly any talking, well when I used to pick guys up in bars anyway.
It was more just 'hi, can i buy you a drink?', then we danced and then we went somewhere to make out and whatever.

I was about to ask where these bars were when I realized it was probably the males offering to buy you a drink.

Oh, fantasy world where the women buy me alcohol, when will I find you?


Gay bar

Just be prepared for anything though.


LOL... sometimes you can have a pretty good chance of hooking up with a girl at a gay bar. I guess it would be different if it was an "exclusively gay" bar but I've never been to (or known of) one with a strict regulation like that.



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27 Feb 2011, 5:38 pm

Xeno wrote:
Quartz11 wrote:
flamemasterelan wrote:
emlion wrote:
In a club i've always found there's hardly any talking, well when I used to pick guys up in bars anyway.
It was more just 'hi, can i buy you a drink?', then we danced and then we went somewhere to make out and whatever.

I was about to ask where these bars were when I realized it was probably the males offering to buy you a drink.

Oh, fantasy world where the women buy me alcohol, when will I find you?


Gay bar

Just be prepared for anything though.


LOL... sometimes you can have a pretty good chance of hooking up with a girl at a gay bar. I guess it would be different if it was an "exclusively gay" bar but I've never been to (or known of) one with a strict regulation like that.


They exist, I've been to them. 8O



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27 Feb 2011, 5:43 pm

emlion wrote:
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seriously? drunk chicks are everywhere in clubs.


I can assure you that doesn't guarantee success!


of course not, but it ups the chances if you're forward.


You're talking from your female perspective, your "success" rate at club is not affected by your personality type as long you're not hostile or hideous or super dumb.

Your advice only works with the 'predator' type of guys.

And what's the point of attracting a drunk girl? It's the sober state that matters.



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27 Feb 2011, 6:06 pm

wait, are we talking about getting laid or a relationship?
cause clubs are no place for relationships to start.



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27 Feb 2011, 6:08 pm

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27 Feb 2011, 6:09 pm

what? gender has nothing to do with it. :roll:
it takes a guy and a girl to get laid - so guys must find it just as easy, else how would the girls get laid, right?



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27 Feb 2011, 6:12 pm

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what? gender has nothing to do with it. :roll:
it takes a guy and a girl to get laid - so guys must find it just as easy, else how would the girls get laid, right?

they think its the same guy doing all the women lol



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27 Feb 2011, 6:12 pm

emlion wrote:
what? gender has nothing to do with it. :roll:
it takes a guy and a girl to get laid - so guys must find it just as easy, else how would the girls get laid, right?


Guys like Mark198423 would even have a hard time of getting laid with semi-drunk chicks, even in a club. Yea some of us are that bad.



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27 Feb 2011, 6:13 pm

i'm not denying that it's a flawless plan, but it's better to try than not to?



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27 Feb 2011, 6:17 pm

^ I ll let Mark to reply this.

lotusblossom wrote:
emlion wrote:
what? gender has nothing to do with it. :roll:
it takes a guy and a girl to get laid - so guys must find it just as easy, else how would the girls get laid, right?

they think its the same guy doing all the women lol


no, it's more a matter of demand and offer.

Single guys are more likely to go to clubs/pubs for getting laid than single girls there.