Women are not attracted to me because I'm not 'masculine'?

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Equality? Bullpucky! So next time a woman slaps me you want me to treat her as an equal and deck her?

Slap her back. If someones slaps me, I slap back, anyway what it is. (Ok, toddlers and babies excluded. ^^)

Have you zero, ZERO, success??? Because there's guys here with zero success. There's is guys here in their 30s that NEVER had a girlfriend. And you're telling them that they had not enough interest??? that they didn't make enough effort???, that it's their fault because their level is too high and they only look for bimbos and don't want a simple next door girl???

Are you f**** kidding me? Have you any trace of empathy?

In my country, if she slaaps you, that's OK. If you slaap her, you go to jail.

No kidding.

Sweden?

That rule certainly applies in Canada/USA.

Domestic violence and be male on female or vice versa in the UK but I think a lot of men would be too embarrassed to report it.

Assault is assault, regardless of gender.

Only in theory.
That's why you see it all day on TV, when a woman slaps a man the audience (or audio track) cheers back with a sassy, "OOOoooOoooo!!" instead of a terrified gasp!

I would think it all depends on whether the recipient decides to go to the police

I think it should happen more often! Maybe some people would think twice about going slap-happy if they knew SHE would get in trouble for it, rather than being able to stand back in smug satisfaction because he can't hit her back without being the world's biggest as*hole.

^^^ Good point. Some people just get so blinded by the emotion of the moment there is NO consideration for consequences. IF they're both equally foolish - her initial slap could lead to a terrible brawl or death. (Statistics are pretty freaky there... I won't go into that.)

Unfortunately, if you become known as "the guy who won't fight back" - some people, male and female alike, just can't resist taking shots at you.

This is why it's important to be able to get the measure of people and avoid the nasty aggressive types

This type usually dislikes me anyway so we don't tend to cross paths except randomly

If you mix with the wrong crowd, death can often be the price you pay!

Equality? Bullpucky! So next time a woman slaps me you want me to treat her as an equal and deck her?

just because a woman gives birth doesn't mean that she has to have someone buy her groceries and take care of her indefinitely. giving birth is one small biological act, but life can have many other acts and roles in it. the small physical differences between men and women don't mean a whole lot in day to day life. childbirth doesn't happen for 8 hours a day, 5 days a week after all. you don't have to believe anything at all, because people are off doing these roles whether you believe in them or not. i have to admit i am rather shocked that you have never noticed that women are out doing jobs and contributing in the real world.

many men and women have similar roles in a household (differentiation is not actually required), or reversed roles, or whatever works for them. you can choose a more traditional way to do things, but that doesn't make it the "right" way or the way that things should be for other people. that's the beauty of the modern world - people can choose to do what works for them within their own relationship.

you don't have to be lazy (not sure where you got that idea, as i did not say that at all). but your future wife could work too, if she wanted to. or you could take turns working and caring for the household, if you wanted to make an agreement like that. many people work because they want to, not because they have to. it gives them a feeling of fulfilment and a sense of accomplishment. but your future wife will probably make her feelings clear about that.