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mrwhite23
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11 May 2013, 8:56 am

Who here is an NT married to an Aspie?
and if you are what is it like?
from an NT's point of view?
and if you could would you want them to be an NT like you?



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11 May 2013, 9:16 am

I would not want him to change unless it made him happier. A change might change other things about him and I do love him as he is. Things are not always easy but that is true of anyone. It is often stressful and sometimes lonely, but it is also a comfort because I know he is and will be loyal. I know he cares about me. He's honest and he really does love me how and for who I am. Most guys were attracted superficially or for the wrong intentions or reasons. He has a good heart, even if at times I wish he'd express himself the way we're all raised to believe is the fairytale way: Scoop me up in his arms, all that passionate stuff.

Stuff like that doesn't really happen in real life whether NT or AS, I dated enough before, to know that. Does that answer your questions?