billiscool wrote:
OliveOilMom wrote:
I've asked guys out before and I think that if the girls does the asking out then she should pay for the date. I know a lot of girls who don't think that way. They think that even though they ask the guy out he should pay.
The thing I used to not like though is if we went in my car. When I would pick the guy up he would insist on driving. To this day, almost every guy I have ever gone anywhere with has insisted on driving unless he was just too drunk. Even though it was my car. Last summer when I went and picked Ole Boy up from jail where he was doing weekends for that shooting thing, I was in my vehicle. We walked out of the jail and he just stuck his hand out and I knew what he wanted and I didn't even argue cause it would be pointless and I don't like arguing loud at the jail anyway. So I gave him the keys. And we rode out to the beer store where he borrowed money for beer since he left his wallet and credit cards at the house because he didn't need them in jail. He was kind of shocked that I had had lunch with his ex wife that day though. That was how I knew he needed picking up from jail, because she wasn't gonna do it and their kid that lived in town was drunk (he was like 19, not a kid kid) so I went
So, to recap, I think it's fine to ask a guy out as long as you pay for the date. I also wish they wouldn't whine about driving.
Im wondering do autism/aspie women ask men out more often than nt women or is it the same?
I really have no idea.
I don't know, but I've hung out with guys as friends lots so Im not as nervous about it. I'm privy to the "inside information" I guess lol. About how they talk about us. I also know that most guys would welcome that happening which I found out from, you guessed it, guy friends. Plus, I'm pretty straight and to the point anyway. I'll play games when I need to and sometimes that's nice but I'd much rather just say what I want to say. I've actually said to a guy "No, I don't want to go out. I want you to shut up and us go have sex ok?" and it worked, probably because it was the truth. I would actually be ok if a guy said that to me. I'd either say no or yes and wouldn't really be offended. I'd probably be flattered. Then again, I'm weird.
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I'm giving it another shot. We will see.
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