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The_Face_of_Boo
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22 Jul 2013, 4:46 pm

I've decided to ditch my Aspie girlfriend, for good.

I've been fighting with her since week 1 I moved to her place: cups, dishes, vases ... were of the few things broken in the process, and she always made me buy new ones despite she started the fights 80% of the times, if I start the fight she makes me pay for the losses because I started it, and if she starts the fight she makes me pay too because she says I was the one who caused her anger, so it's always my fault she says either way!! Not to mention the injuries she caused, she's a policewoman and a former grenadier in the army, so I was no match for her.

Not only that, but I 've caught her several times masterbating over Roid-buff gay porn on her laptop at night, just besides me, in bed while I was sleeping!! ! I mean hey I know it's her bed, her room, but couldn't she go to some other room to do it?? no respect at all! and no consideration for my feelings :(.

And she always called me names, I don't even recall the last time she called me with my name: Shrimp, donkey, imbecile, you son of b*** are some of the most used names.

And she kept telling me of Mustafa's enormous willie, her colleague policeman, not sure how she knows the size but she claimed that toilets/showers are shared in their HQ.

And oh, her cooking stinks, no salt, no spices, and she puts like the half qty of water needed for rice, she likes the rice crashing under teeth, and I was always the one who did the chores!


Then one day, the barista (a drop out psychology college student) of our local cafe had pointed out that my partner has Asperger's - ever since it all makes sense now!! it wasn't my fault at all! It was her nature, I can't change her, she won't change! ALL her jerky behaviors make sense now and I no longer feel guilty! She's an aspie girl so she can't help it.

So I've finally built up the courage yesterday to break up with her!! Yeah!

but I need some support, especially from you aspie girls :'(
















PS: Ok, I am feeling so gay now, time to go back blowing up some heads in Fallout 3.



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22 Jul 2013, 5:17 pm

LOL! I like it!



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22 Jul 2013, 5:19 pm

Here's the manly hug you asked for

...

On second thought, maybe not.



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22 Jul 2013, 5:20 pm

Parody of a recent thread?

The amount of attention the "dating an Aspie" threads receive is kind of ridiculous... half the problems could be solved with good old personal research, self-reflection, and a little critical thinking. That's the dating world for you, though. I'm committed to just leaving them be at this point.



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22 Jul 2013, 5:22 pm

MCalavera wrote:
Here's the manly hug you asked for

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On second thought, maybe not.


:lol:



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22 Jul 2013, 5:24 pm

I think they place too much blame and emphasis because of the whole aspie thing. They make it an excuse for all of their own shortcomings. Does this happen every summer? Maybe summer love ending or beginning or something?



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22 Jul 2013, 5:27 pm

MCalavera wrote:
Here's the manly hug you asked for

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On second thought, maybe not.



Men...



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22 Jul 2013, 5:28 pm

Men don't do hugs. We show our cocks to each other instead.



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22 Jul 2013, 5:29 pm

MCalavera wrote:
Men don't do hugs. We show our cocks to each other instead.


Do you form a circle and... I think I'm going to leave now.



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22 Jul 2013, 5:30 pm

MCalavera wrote:
Men don't do hugs. We show our cocks to each other instead.



*cockbump*



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22 Jul 2013, 5:33 pm

I am not an aspie girl (I'm an aspie guy), but I still need to tell you something: she sounds like a complete pain and is very abusive, but you wrote:

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It was her nature, I can't change her, she won't change! ALL her jerky behaviors make sense now and I no longer feel guilty! She's an aspie girl so she can't help it.


Don't say that about her! She can change, she just needs some help. If you give up on her and pin a label on her to explain why she acts like she acts and call her helpless, you are being the biggest ***** in the whole world!

Sorry, there was just no polite way to say it. I know you didn't ask for my advice, given my gender, so I think you should get advice from aspie girls as well. And I hope that every aspie girl will tell you that that not every aspie girl is like that.


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22 Jul 2013, 5:35 pm

populationone wrote:
I am not an aspie girl (I'm an aspie guy), but I still need to tell you something: she sounds like a complete pain and is very abusive, but you wrote:

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It was her nature, I can't change her, she won't change! ALL her jerky behaviors make sense now and I no longer feel guilty! She's an aspie girl so she can't help it.


Don't say that about her! She can change, she just needs some help. If you give up on her and pin a label on her to explain why she acts like she acts and call her helpless, you are being the biggest ***** in the whole world!

Sorry, there was just no polite way to say it. I know you didn't ask for my advice, given my gender, so I think you should get advice from aspie girls as well. And I hope that every aspie girl will tell you that that not every aspie girl is like that.


You must be new here...



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22 Jul 2013, 5:36 pm

Agree 100% with populationone.



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22 Jul 2013, 5:41 pm

Kinme wrote:
I think they place too much blame and emphasis because of the whole aspie thing. They make it an excuse for all of their own shortcomings. Does this happen every summer? Maybe summer love ending or beginning or something?


I was also wondering if it was a summer thing.



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22 Jul 2013, 5:41 pm

Marcia wrote:
Kinme wrote:
I think they place too much blame and emphasis because of the whole aspie thing. They make it an excuse for all of their own shortcomings. Does this happen every summer? Maybe summer love ending or beginning or something?


I was also wondering if it was a summer thing.


Summer love or some crap like that?



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22 Jul 2013, 5:43 pm

She sounds exactly like me! Except I can cook, although I do like my rice crushing my teeth . . .

And I'm pretty and single- who's interested?





populationone, I really like your signature.


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