Mike_the_EE wrote:
Well, I hate to break with the majority here. But my experience on OKCuipd has been great. I received an unsolicited message from a really wonderful woman. The only problem is that she lives in another state. We messaged for weeks, then moved to email and phone and next week I am flying to Colorado so we can meet. I have disabled my OKC account and will probably delete it after this trip. I really don't want to do the long distance relationship thing, but she is worth it.
Well, not that anyone will particularly care, but this crashed and burned. I went to Colorado a couple of times and it was wonderful, she was everything that I dreamed of and we fell in love. The long distance relationship thing was tough, but we were making it work. She came to Ohio in January and everything was different. She was a completely different person and we had no romance at all. When she returned to Colorado, everything that we were building started to come apart, but she insisted that absolutely nothing had changed. Things got so strange that I started to break it off, and then she started to hallucinate. Apparently, she is an undiagnosed schizophrenic, not something that I can deal with, particularly 1000 miles apart. The ending wasn't pretty.
I'm done with the dating thing for a while. Possibly forever. Getting too old to do this.
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