Question #2 for guys

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Here's the next question of my little survey.

This is a trick question! I don't find the same women attractive that the majority of men do. (ie Blond, busty, and glomourous. So I am physically attracted, but not as much as other guys, and more to the demeanor and attitude, and to a totally different portion of the female population.

Heh.

This is actually a question I find asked a lot.

beauty doesn't matter to me. what matters to me is personality and how she interacts with her friends, families and others. I don't really date those that are considered beautiful. I date those that I consider beautiful, which if you saw A Walk to Remember, is plain and ordinary. That's my type.

I have two different attitudes about women's attractiveness, based on the situation. When looking for a date or a girlfriend, I tend to go for the plain-looking ones. They don't have as many men interested in them, which would mean less competition for me (and higher odds of her liking me). At the same time, plain-looking people tend to have better personalities, since the society doesn't just hand them everything on a silver platter, so those people end up having to work for the things they get. And working for something usually builds character, and makes you appreciate what you get. In the end, she's happy because she found a good guy, and I'm happy because I found a girl who appreciates me. I don't see it as "preying" on women with low self-esteem, since I treat the women I date very well, and don't expect anything they're not comfortable doing.

When choosing an escort (who I'll only be with for an hour or so), my attitude is a complete 180 of what I described above. I pick out the best-looking one, with the best body. I also check the reviews to make sure she has a friendly personality as well, but that's secondary. As long as she looks hot, and puts up a good act of liking me, I'm happy. Most escorts I saw fit this description.

I value it less because personality is most important to me.

From a male Aspie teen's perspective {I'm 16}, most guys my age go for whoever has more more beauty than brains and personality.

Personally, I look for beauty, brains, and personality in a girl equally.
Which means the girl has to have all three.