AspieOtaku wrote:
I have been hurt many times in the past and have issues trusting people today and have placed a barrier around myheart is this a good thing?
Yes.
People are way too emotional about becoming romantically involved. Instead, surround yourself with those you feel most compatible with. Keep your eyes and mind open, take notice of who you're around most often. Be crazy about those who are crazy about you. Make wise decisions in mates, THEN let your feelings get carried away. Too many people lose their heads about people they don't even really know.