Can you control NOT falling in love with someone?

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26 Sep 2020, 10:54 am

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I do not speak to any of my exes. It's the only way I could get closure and move on, although those wounds never fully heal. It will hurt to let him go, but it seems this person is using you/taking advantage of you with no intention to commit. You deserve better than to be some guy's plaything, there only for his amusement. Don't degrade yourself. Even if you're alone, you're better off.


Just out of curiosity, what type of men were you attracted to?

Typically men who are a bit older than me, educated, and intellectual. My son's father, who I actually married, was a bit of an exception. Although a few years older, he was as dumb as a brick. He also has numerous severe mental illnesses, and a substance abuse problem.



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26 Sep 2020, 4:36 pm

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There are black, Ethiopian Jews.

And don’t forget: Sammy Davis Jr. converted to Judaism.

And Epstein, a character in a show called “Welcome Back Kotter,” was a Puerto Rican Jew.

I’m glad the sex is good for you. But I do hope “more” results.

I’m a Jewish (non-religious) man who is married to a black woman.


How can you be Jewish & not religious?


Because Jewish is also considered an ethnicity.

It's not like "Christian".



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26 Sep 2020, 4:40 pm

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Also I am sure I will be very wealthy once i am in my mid 30s.


Jeez, the over-confidence.

Why, are you planning to be a brain surgeon?


What I don't understand,
Is if she is so on top of it all,
Why does she need advice from a fish and a skunk? :scratch:

Something doesn't smell right, and it isn't me. <joke> :mrgreen:



Maybe she won the lottery already.



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26 Sep 2020, 7:41 pm

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Well, as long you find the sex with him AMAZING then you will fall in love with him.

That's how you're programmed.


A gross generalisation, dude. :mrgreen:

It definitely is! :!:


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26 Sep 2020, 8:34 pm

AspiePrincess611 wrote:
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I do not speak to any of my exes. It's the only way I could get closure and move on, although those wounds never fully heal. It will hurt to let him go, but it seems this person is using you/taking advantage of you with no intention to commit. You deserve better than to be some guy's plaything, there only for his amusement. Don't degrade yourself. Even if you're alone, you're better off.


Just out of curiosity, what type of men were you attracted to?

Typically men who are a bit older than me, educated, and intellectual. My son's father, who I actually married, was a bit of an exception. Although a few years older, he was as dumb as a brick. He also has numerous severe mental illnesses, and a substance abuse problem.


At least your son didn't inherit his brains :lol:



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26 Sep 2020, 11:00 pm

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Well, as long you find the sex with him AMAZING then you will fall in love with him.

That's how you're programmed.


A gross generalisation, dude. :mrgreen:

It definitely is! :!:


It is our human biology, hormones.

We develop bonding from repetitive *enjoyable* sex with the same person.



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26 Sep 2020, 11:45 pm

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Typically men who are a bit older than me, educated, and intellectual.

Then I'm your skunk. 8)
You will have to wait in line, though.
I'm pretty hot property. 8)



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26 Sep 2020, 11:49 pm

hartzofspace wrote:
Pepe wrote:
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Well, as long you find the sex with him AMAZING then you will fall in love with him.

That's how you're programmed.


A gross generalisation, dude. :mrgreen:

It definitely is! :!:


Wow,
Where did you come from?
You certainly keep a low profile. :mrgreen:



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26 Sep 2020, 11:53 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
hartzofspace wrote:
Pepe wrote:
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Well, as long you find the sex with him AMAZING then you will fall in love with him.

That's how you're programmed.


A gross generalisation, dude. :mrgreen:

It definitely is! :!:


It is our human biology, hormones.

We develop bonding from repetitive *enjoyable* sex with the same person.


It is also human nature for men, in particular, to want to move onto another conquest.
"7-year itch" sort of thing.
"Familiarity breeds a wandering eye", often. EEP! 8O

Blame the evolutionary process. 8)



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27 Sep 2020, 12:12 am

Pepe wrote:
hartzofspace wrote:
Pepe wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Well, as long you find the sex with him AMAZING then you will fall in love with him.

That's how you're programmed.


A gross generalisation, dude. :mrgreen:

It definitely is! :!:


Wow,
Where did you come from?
You certainly keep a low profile. :mrgreen:


She is like a comet, appearing once in every few thousands of years.



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27 Sep 2020, 12:17 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Pepe wrote:
hartzofspace wrote:
Pepe wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Well, as long you find the sex with him AMAZING then you will fall in love with him.

That's how you're programmed.


A gross generalisation, dude. :mrgreen:

It definitely is! :!:


Wow,
Where did you come from?
You certainly keep a low profile. :mrgreen:


She is like a comet, appearing once in every few thousands of years.

She doesn't look a day over 800. 8O



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27 Sep 2020, 12:18 am

Oh well, another millennia of testosterone



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27 Sep 2020, 6:24 am

Well, she is called hartz of space after all, her time-space apparently scales differently than ours.

There will be hopefully a covid vaccine in the world when we see her next post...



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27 Sep 2020, 6:40 am

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Well, she is called hartz of space after all, her time-space apparently scales differently than ours.

There will be hopefully a covid vaccine in the world when we see her next post...


Or Haleys comet



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27 Sep 2020, 10:41 pm

Pepe wrote:
hartzofspace wrote:
Pepe wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Well, as long you find the sex with him AMAZING then you will fall in love with him.

That's how you're programmed.


A gross generalisation, dude. :mrgreen:

It definitely is! :!:


Wow,
Where did you come from?
You certainly keep a low profile. :mrgreen:

I haven't been here in awhile. :)


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27 Sep 2020, 10:45 pm

hartzofspace wrote:
Pepe wrote:
hartzofspace wrote:
Pepe wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Well, as long you find the sex with him AMAZING then you will fall in love with him.

That's how you're programmed.


A gross generalisation, dude. :mrgreen:

It definitely is! :!:


Wow,
Where did you come from?
You certainly keep a low profile. :mrgreen:

I haven't been here in awhile. :)


So, you came back because of me? :scratch:
Understandable. 8)