What's your pleasure, blue eyes or brown eyes?
IsabellaLinton wrote:
I had a date last week and I have no real recollection of what he looked like. I can't picture his face at all now even though I could describe him. I'm totally face blind on top of not really making eye contact. I'm sure I'll recognise him next time lol.
It sounds perfectly normal to me I think you'll be fine, for me things change significantly as I get more comfortable with people and get to know them. If I'm relaxed, under no pressure and have no sensory overload I'm much better at it anyway so I guess it's strongly related to that.
Otherwise, I just look at people's eyebrows to avoid the whole insincerity, "shifty-eyes" impression. Men are often judged harshly for not making eye contact but I imagine these days women don't easily get away with it either. Even when I make eye contact in such conditions I still can't remember the colour.
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BenderRodriguez wrote:
IsabellaLinton wrote:
I had a date last week and I have no real recollection of what he looked like. I can't picture his face at all now even though I could describe him. I'm totally face blind on top of not really making eye contact. I'm sure I'll recognise him next time lol.
It sounds perfectly normal to me I think you'll be fine, for me things change significantly as I get more comfortable with people and get to know them. If I'm relaxed, under no pressure and have no sensory overload I'm much better at it anyway so I guess it's strongly related to that.
Otherwise, I just look at people's eyebrows to avoid the whole insincerity, "shifty-eyes" impression. Men are often judged harshly for not making eye contact but I imagine these days women don't easily get away with it either. Even when I make eye contact in such conditions I still can't remember the colour.
Same! I did look at him a lot when speaking but I've totally blanked.
By the way, yes I did tell him I'm autistic.
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I definitely prefer brown eyes to blue. Brown eyes are pretty in all shades and seem warm.
I also like grey and green.
Blue is my least favorite eye color, it seems cold and boring to me.
Much the same for hair. I like all shades of brown hair, but particularly dark brown that looks lustrous and not 'dull'.
Black is okay, as is red.
I don't like light hair at all, it's really unappealing to me and cold looking.
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