no body loves me

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someone loved me once, but then he went away and got married and now I am alone and i am going to become an old cat lady. I already have a cat so I am on my way. being lonly is no fun, i dont care if I am pathetic. ..............I am so amused right now that i dont care if I make any sence HAHAHA. but my point is....... I dont know what my point is... but my point is... why did he have to leave and get married and i cant even get a date? ok. thats all.

P.S telling me how to dress wont make one lick of difference :)

Well, at least cats give you unconditional love

I know that feeling well.
Problem is, love is a word too easily said..but not backed up by action.

I'm sure there's somebody out there for you. Don't give up.

I dont want to give up.......I dont think i am quite giving up yet... its just frustrating.. and hard.......and you all know.. I know you all know..it some times feels... almost hopless........but i am not giving up hope.

That's the spirit.

Well, being lonely isn't fun. I usually imagine people I want to be around but aren't are in the same room as me and I'm talking with them via my mind. But yeah, it's just not the same. I say, keep your chin up and get back into the dating scene when you're ready. Don't push yourself, just be you. And I don't think there's anything wrong with living alone with cats. I love cats and I'd most liely get along great with a fellow cat lover. Hang in there. -Power Girl

all i can say is it IS difficult. and not easy to find someone that will work with a.s., let alone learn the facts and try to deal with it. my own experience has me going over 1000 miles out of my way to find someone (not kidding) that can do that. I'm not saying it's impossible, but for me, it wasn't easy to even find someone. I dont really know how this will develop, despite almost daily contact for the better part of 9 months, 3 visits to her country, and plans for her to visit me. it's work, and nothing is for certain. i know it is challenging to say the least, and for some reason, always feel there is 'competition' looming that doesn't have my particular issues. that's me, i suppose, but know in my worries that mr. right here will always win out over mr. right, but long distance. that's where the challenge is, and either i step up or step out. so goes the world of relationships, i guess.

Right - do not give up. If we like you (we do), your cats like you, then so do others. They can love you too. I feel the same way....a lot. Sigh. You'll find someone. Oh, if you know any tips about this, let me know! Shyness, for me, is hard.

If someone loved you before, I am sure it will happen again. Although, words are easily said, not everyone had I love you said to them.

So how old are you? Where do you live.

I don't miss being loved b'cause I have kids. But I think if I was alone, I'd be lonely.

Yeah, don't give up. I haven't.

I want someone to love and be with too but I also like my alone time. Darn conflicting. Maybe I need to find myself an Aspie female friend as we'd both understand sometimes we like to be by ourselves.

Don't give up. You will find someone who will love you unconditionally.

Tim