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19 Sep 2016, 12:59 pm

I posted my art for sale in a local buy/sell/swap on Facebook. Someone said "eewww" to my artwork. If I said that I'd be told I have bad social skills. But if an NT says it, it's like it doesn't matter. They don't have to like my artwork but they don't have to be rude about it.



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19 Sep 2016, 1:09 pm

They probably have the skills to tell whom they can get away with being rude to and whom they can't.


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19 Sep 2016, 1:10 pm

There are a lot of rude people and trolls on the Internet.



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19 Sep 2016, 7:50 pm

Yep...that was rude!

Those NT's lack social skills!

Just forget about them...and move on.



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19 Sep 2016, 8:45 pm

Sounds like they lack social skills as well; could even be on the spectrum themselves..

don't remember what comedian said it, but this can be neatly summed up in about 3 word: "some people suck."



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20 Sep 2016, 5:56 pm

It's double standards. An NT can hurt an Aspie's feelings and people are like "that person is a jerk but let's move on now" but if an Aspie hurts an NT's feelings everybody freaks out like "YOU INCONSIDERATE s**t YOU DESERVE TO BE WIPED OFF THE FACE OF THE EARTH, YOU NEED TO LEARN SOCIAL SKILLS YOU UNEMPATHETIC a***hole, LOOK WHAT YOU'VE DONE TO THAT POOR NT!! !!"


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20 Sep 2016, 8:01 pm

Butterfly88 wrote:
I posted my art for sale in a local buy/sell/swap on Facebook. Someone said "eewww" to my artwork. If I said that I'd be told I have bad social skills. But if an NT says it, it's like it doesn't matter. They don't have to like my artwork but they don't have to be rude about it.


Did that particular party justify his response? It's one thing to be critical, as long as they have sort of expertise, and offer what's called constructive criticism. It's quite another to be a d!ckcheese about it and be a no-nothing.