Im confused where the boundary between casual touching and flirting/intimate touching begins.
There is this girl in college that I sit next to. She is Korean, a little bit older then me (has a fine art degree), and has been in the states for a good two years. The last time I saw her, she had a boyfriend. I dont make an effort to know people's private affairs so currently I dont know if she is still dating. But anyways, when she talks to me, her hand sometimes grazes the end of my thigh, at the kneecaps. She speaks softly and quietly, making it hard for me to judge her intention by her tone. We usually only small-talk to one another.
I suspect that if someone touches the inner part of your thigh (which she is not doing) it is definitly flirting, but its just something more casual if they it at the outer end. But, if someone thinks my assumption is wrong the could they offer a second opinion? Where do people actually draw the line in these matters?