nick007 wrote:
Another reason some people thought I was pedo is because I had a crush obsession with a celeb who was under 18. People were getting hung-up on her age instead of looking into why I liked her. I had been very depressed about being single after my 1st relationship ended till I managed to get into my 2nd relationship 8 years later. I think the crush started partly as a coping mechanism. There are NOT many celebs I can respect & Miranda was very mature, responsible, wholesome, & independent for her age. I knew logically that she was under 18 but my brain did not really think about that. I did not see a kid, I saw a goddess I could look up to. There can be a big difference between being a pedophile & being a severely lovesick dope who's slightly delusional.
Why would you tell people that you, a grown man, have a crush obsession on an under age girl for any reason?
Do you think being a severely lovesick, delusional dope is a proper excuse for having a crush obsession on an under age girl?
Best you keep these things to yourself.
The women I love are my special intrerests & it's hard for me to not to talk about em online. I'm alot more open & personal about things online than I ever been with anyone offline except for with my current girlfriend. I don't think interests or obsessions are bad nor good. What should count is how you act on them. I never tried to contact her or meet her or anything so NO harm done. Besides a bit of people online were making sexual comments about her or faking pix of her which made me feel sick to my stomach so lumping me in the pedo category is not right.