Why are there laws against paedophilia?



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01 Nov 2012, 8:44 pm

^Yeah, this idea that teenage boys always enjoy statutory rape is pretty widespread.



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01 Nov 2012, 8:55 pm

Doesn't matter if the kid gets physical pleasure out of statutory rape, or not. They're being taken advantage of, and likely being lied to, and at some point they're going to figure that out and it's going to twist their relationship with the opposite sex for the rest of their life.



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01 Nov 2012, 9:06 pm

LKL wrote:
Doesn't matter if the kid gets physical pleasure out of statutory rape, or not. They're being taken advantage of, and likely being lied to, and at some point they're going to figure that out and it's going to twist their relationship with the opposite sex for the rest of their life.


I know. People don't want to think their sexuality is that complicated.



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02 Nov 2012, 7:48 am

LKL wrote:
it's going to twist their relationship with the opposite sex for the rest of their life.


Oh, cum now. Now that we have the internet, boys are wanking off to internet porn from the age of 12. Back in the old days, all we had was the occasional contraband Playboy or National Geographic magazine.

If, at the age of 14, I had had the opportunity to engage in coitus with the notorious Debra Lafave

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I would have been counting my lucky stars.



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02 Nov 2012, 10:02 am

ArrantPariah wrote:
LKL wrote:
it's going to twist their relationship with the opposite sex for the rest of their life.


Oh, cum now. Now that we have the internet, boys are wanking off to internet porn from the age of 12. Back in the old days, all we had was the occasional contraband Playboy or National Geographic magazine.

If, at the age of 14, I had had the opportunity to engage in coitus with the notorious Debra Lafave

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I would have been counting my lucky stars.

+1 :thumleft:

I like my relationship with the opposite sex getting a little twist every now and then. I only wish I got twisted a little more often, but, that aside, I do OK for a married man with 3 kids. If my then-gf hadn't dropped the old "marry me now or else" bomb on me, I might have taken the time to do a little twisting with women 10 years or more older than me.

The worst I could see this going is that an older woman becomes another part of a teenage boy's highlight reel or he might holler out the wrong name at the worst possible time.



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02 Nov 2012, 10:17 am

[quote="ArrantPariah"] Back in the old days, all we had was the occasional contraband Playboy or National Geographic magazine.

I think you have given your age away,and to think I thought you were younger than me.No wonder you are into hot young teachers, now I think you must be a randy old codger, that explains alot ,all the teachers you had most likely looked like the old biddie in the Old Maid card deck.Why don't you go to Vegas and get a call girl dressed like a Teacher and get paddled,it seems to be one of your many interests. :twisted: Joking.



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02 Nov 2012, 12:16 pm

Misslizard wrote:
now I think you must be a randy old codger,


That's me all over. :wink:



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02 Nov 2012, 4:24 pm

I'll say it again: please save your sexual fantasies for the adult forum. This is TMI.



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02 Nov 2012, 4:38 pm

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-bthelEfZ-w[/youtube]

Those of us of a literary bent also had Chaucer, Rabelais and the Bible.



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02 Nov 2012, 5:29 pm

LKL wrote:
I'll say it again: please save your sexual fantasies for the adult forum. This is TMI.


Is that the best that you can come up with?

LKL wrote:

it's going to twist their relationship with the opposite sex for the rest of their life.


So, tell us what this twist is going to entail.



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02 Nov 2012, 5:49 pm

I was perfectly clear, and I don't think that you need it spelled out for you.



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02 Nov 2012, 6:10 pm

LKL wrote:
I was perfectly clear, and I don't think that you need it spelled out for you.


You're not clear at all. All that you are doing is making a blanket assertion, that a teenaged boy who has sexual relations with an adult woman is going to have twisted relationships with women for the rest of his life. You're unclear about what the "twist" is, whether the twist is good or bad (I suspect that you see it as bad), and how this twist occurs.



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02 Nov 2012, 6:29 pm

I said more than that when I made the initial assertion; I suggest that you go back and re-read my initial post.
I have absolutely no desire to discuss anything related to sexuality any further with you, given your demonstrated inability to keep your head out of the gutter. Done with this thread. Bye.



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02 Nov 2012, 6:52 pm

http://www2.hu-berlin.de/sexology/GESUN ... ICSOLD.HTM

In the Marquesas Islands

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A boy usually has his first sexual experience with a much older woman, who instructs him in his first bungling attempts. Many of my older Marquesan friends looked back upon this initiation with fond memories and much amusement at their own ineptitude. The boys generally join a small informal group of comrades of similar age, who spend their evenings wandering about the dark valleys attempting to enter the homes of receptive women of all ages and conditions of life.


It has to happen at some point. Might as well be an older woman performing the instruction.

Moreover, if you have two equally inexperienced partners bungling together, then a pregnancy is probably more likely to occur.



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02 Nov 2012, 10:14 pm

ArrantPariah wrote:
http://www2.hu-berlin.de/sexology/GESUND/ARCHIV/GUS/PACIFICSOLD.HTM

In the Marquesas Islands

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A boy usually has his first sexual experience with a much older woman, who instructs him in his first bungling attempts. Many of my older Marquesan friends looked back upon this initiation with fond memories and much amusement at their own ineptitude. The boys generally join a small informal group of comrades of similar age, who spend their evenings wandering about the dark valleys attempting to enter the homes of receptive women of all ages and conditions of life.


It has to happen at some point. Might as well be an older woman performing the instruction.

Moreover, if you have two equally inexperienced partners bungling together, then a pregnancy is probably more likely to occur.


What you are making the argument is partially that the psychological damage is due to upbringing.

However the examples you are using can easily be demolished.
1. Areas in question are in the tropics.
2. Areas in question are surrounded by water

The combination of the two means that wearing lots of clothing to begin with is not only impractical, but can be downright dangerous if one has to swim, not to mention the tropical heat and humidity...

So while you can make a case that the damage is due to cultural upbringing, that still doesn't change the fact that what LKL has said about children in Western Society is correct.



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