Sounds a lot like ADHD to me. This is kind of the reason why for a while, I didn't think I could be autistic. The symptoms are very similar but based off of what I've read, autists are inclined to have a dislike for change and stick to routine, in addition to lacking in nonverbal language skills. This was a problem I've had that my ADHD didn't really explain. At any rate, both have an effect on executive functioning and social skills so it's a close call. Maybe you should speak to your doctor about your doubts and have them explain in detail the reasons for your diagnosis.
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Diagnosis: ADHD-PI, suspected AS
Your Aspie Score: 142 of 200, Your NT Score: 74 of 200, You are very likely an Aspie
AQ: 38/EQ: 16/SQ: 52