I'll post this in relation to a dating scenario. For friendships the bar is set considerably lower as I can't be too picky.
Turn ons:
-Christian girls who are real
-Good conversation
-Selflessness
-Honesty
-Geekiness
-Short girls
-Glasses
-Easy to read/exaggerated body language, or no body language at all (I hate subtle signals)
-Casual dress
Turn offs:
-Arrogance
-Perfume/makeup
-Piercings
-Tattoos
-Alcohol and/or drug use
-Smoking
Now, in terms of friendship, the rules are a bit more relaxed.
Turn ons:
-Conversation
-Intellect
-Honesty
-Trust
-Shared interests
Turn offs:
-Criminals
-Mischief
-Business attire
-Substance abuse
-Chaos
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Uncertain of diagnosis, either ADHD or Aspergers.
Aspie quiz: 143/200 AS, 81/200 NT; AQ 43; "eyes" 17/39, EQ/SQ 21/51 BAPQ: Autistic/BAP- You scored 92 aloof, 111 rigid and 103 pragmatic