Lonely Aspie boy ISO lonely Aspie girl
Respect to you from me, LePetitPrince.
Its ok to be picky, but you don't around advertising it, it makes you look like an a***hole, besides WP is not a dating site!
I agree in that it's ok to be picky. But the reason I had the criteria I had (in the thread entitled "I give up") was because I found someone who I was attracted to. She was an Aspie, had very similar interests to mine, and was very physically attractive. But she was already in a relationship. My thinking was that "if this woman is unavailable, then I need someone who is just like her".
Tim
Or you could just get over her and find someone else. That's not being picky, it's just being F*cking stupid.
Respect to you from me, LePetitPrince.
Its ok to be picky, but you don't around advertising it, it makes you look like an a***hole, besides WP is not a dating site!
I agree in that it's ok to be picky. But the reason I had the criteria I had (in the thread entitled "I give up") was because I found someone who I was attracted to. She was an Aspie, had very similar interests to mine, and was very physically attractive. But she was already in a relationship. My thinking was that "if this woman is unavailable, then I need someone who is just like her".
Tim
Or you could just get over her and find someone else. That's not being picky, it's just being F*cking stupid.
What should I look for in somebody who might eventually be a mate?
Tim
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I don't think you should look for anything. You just meet people as life goes on, some you get the stomach lurch, some you don't. That's how I live life.
Over the years i've learnt not to look for things in people, i'll always be disappointed. Also, I don't date, I just want lots of friends. That will be hard for me, because when they enter in a relationship, they won't be able to hang out with me anymore.
I have qualities I like in people, but it's not really essential if they have them or not. I could fall for the complete opposite.
Over the years i've learnt not to look for things in people, i'll always be disappointed. Also, I don't date, I just want lots of friends. That will be hard for me, because when they enter in a relationship, they won't be able to hang out with me anymore.
I have qualities I like in people, but it's not really essential if they have them or not. I could fall for the complete opposite.
So it's something that just happens then?
Tim
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Over the years i've learnt not to look for things in people, i'll always be disappointed. Also, I don't date, I just want lots of friends. That will be hard for me, because when they enter in a relationship, they won't be able to hang out with me anymore.
I have qualities I like in people, but it's not really essential if they have them or not. I could fall for the complete opposite.
So it's something that just happens then?
Tim
yea it is ,
finding a partner is not like buying a PC or a car...
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