Removing the military enlistment ban on Asperger's syndrome

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20 Dec 2013, 4:31 pm

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I'm generalizing? You're pushing a foxhole example using an outdated sop. Ask anyone how many foxholes there were overseas, and the guard posts / checkpoints were not secret locations, just safety and control measures.

You've given one example of how instructions can be inadequate and I've told you three times what they actually instruct troops to do, and this isn't something you'll only hear from me, if you ask anyone who's been overseas about the eof and the 5s.


I have repeatedly stated that instructions have nothing to do with it. This has to do with AS and what they don't train you on. They don't train people on expected "NT common sense". They won't spend the months it would take to cover every contextual and circumstantial event.

Do you have AS ? Do you understand when AS people talk about lacking common sense - what that means ?

I don't want to get into further details about military training.

However, when you apply your experience to the entire military then that is a generalization.



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20 Dec 2013, 4:43 pm

Hey, people ... your argument is getting a little out of hand. Why not back off from this thread for a day or so, get your thoughts together, and come back when things have cooled down?



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20 Dec 2013, 4:44 pm

LoveNotHate wrote:
MDD123 wrote:
I'm generalizing? You're pushing a foxhole example using an outdated sop. Ask anyone how many foxholes there were overseas, and the guard posts / checkpoints were not secret locations, just safety and control measures.

You've given one example of how instructions can be inadequate and I've told you three times what they actually instruct troops to do, and this isn't something you'll only hear from me, if you ask anyone who's been overseas about the eof and the 5s.


I have repeatedly stated that instructions have nothing to do with it. This has to do with AS and what they don't train you on. They don't train people on expected "NT common sense". They won't spend the months it would take to cover every contextual and circumstantial event.

Do you have AS ? Do you understand when AS people talk about lacking common sense - what that means ?

I don't want to get into further details about military training.

However, when you apply your experience to the entire military then that is a generalization.


To you, it's generalizing, to me, it's using a real world example to clarify something. And yes I have aspergers, I was diagnosed at 18.
I'm not saying the military is a cakewalk or that people there are easy to get along with, just that they disambiguate and repeat their instructions frequently because their demographic of young adults tends to fail at anything not spelled out.


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20 Dec 2013, 4:54 pm

It's true that instructions don't have anything to do with it. But what they don't train you on, you're supposed to learn and you're supposed to get with it. If you can't do well in any of those skills, picking things up and learning how to do well with them, then you're obviously not fit for military service.

A lot has changed since you were in the military, LoveNotHate, due to the fact that we're actually a lot more competent, focused, concentrated, can do our job and know what we're doing as equal as someone as who doesn't have any physical or mental conditions.

Uhh, FYI, LoveNotHate, we have as much common sense as someone who doesn't have any mental or physical conditions, including Asperger's



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20 Dec 2013, 5:05 pm

Oh, well ... I tried ... :(



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20 Dec 2013, 5:30 pm

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It's true that instructions don't have anything to do with it. But what they don't train you on, you're supposed to learn and you're supposed to get with it. If you can't do well in any of those skills, picking things up and learning how to do well with them, then you're obviously not fit for military service.

A lot has changed since you were in the military, LoveNotHate, due to the fact that we're actually a lot more competent, focused, concentrated, can do our job and know what we're doing as equal as someone as who doesn't have any physical or mental conditions.

Uhh, FYI, LoveNotHate, we have as much common sense as someone who doesn't have any mental or physical conditions, including Asperger's


You deny some or possibly all AS people lack "NT common sense" ? You deny the personal stories of AS people on google ?

All the AS people like myself that can tell you how our lives evolved with people making jokes about us that are dumb cause we do stuff in a way that NT people later say lacks common sense, and as I mentioned in my first post being labeled, "lost in the sauce" in the military - we are all making it up ?

I believe "lacking NT common sense" is a fundamental component structure to the AS brain, so does my autism doctor. Who asked me if I thought I was intelligent based on how my brain is a memorization/retrieval system. NT people are not as good at memorization/retrieval, however, somehow they make "NT common sense" connection relationships. [SPECULATION] It seems like our brains store information distinctly, and we store information relationships separately, so if we have not memorized the relationship, then we don't understand how the information is related, whereas, NT people need only the information, and they can dynamically relate information. So, we get better memorization/retrieval skills, and they get better dynamic information relational skills.

Why would you participate on an ASD/AS website and deny AS traits ?



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20 Dec 2013, 5:53 pm

All I know is, I could not function in the military, and apparently poor social skills and problems with attention had something to do with it.


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20 Dec 2013, 7:07 pm

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All I know is, I could not function in the military, and apparently poor social skills and problems with attention had something to do with it.


Here is an AS person who identifies with "lacking NT common sense"
http://aspectsofaspergers.wordpress.com ... mon-sense/

This person describes "lacking common sense" as "lack of ability to automatically understand which events qualify as exceptions to a rule, so that the AS person can act on the event in such a way as to supersede the rule".

According to that understanding, an NT person would somehow automatically know when a rule should be superseded if another event occurs. The NT person would automatically know that when the drunk solider wanders towards the foxhole, then the rule of killing anyone who comes near the foxhole, and cannot answer the password challenge question is superseded, because the rule probably did not mean to kill a friendly solider. An AS person with few life experiences, so no learning of "exceptions to the rule", not trained otherwise, and withstanding any moral issue of killing people, should likely kill the soldier and follow the rule. (This is not derogatory towards AS people - as the link says- this shows the AS mind as clear of preconceptions).

The fundamental problem happening here is that NT people won't tell the solider all the exceptions to the rule - of when a rule should be disregarded - so the AS soldier won't know that. The AS soldier will be "operating blindly" with regards to what the NT people really expect. They will expect the solider to use "NT common sense" to know when and when not to break the rule.

"I was just following orders ..." might be OK a lot of the time. Though, the solider might get identified as a dunce, and not liked by superiors because that is equivalent to saying, "Hey, it is not my fault. My superior did not tell me to do anything differently if event X occurs".

The soldier may face critical situations where the not-understanding-which events-qualify-as-exceptions-to-the-rule will apply, such as the guarding the foxhole scenario. These critical situations if not decided right may result in tragedy. The military cannot and will not train the solider in all the conceivable occurrences that are exceptions to the rule.

So the question here is whether such a soldier can be trusted to be in the military ?



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21 Dec 2013, 12:04 am

I will leave this thread now and let others answer the above question.



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06 Oct 2014, 7:12 pm

I'm from Poland, in 2004 when i was called to military medical draft commission(conscription in Poland was abolished in 2009) i was rejected :( due my other than asperger health problem.


As for ban of service in some armed force of "diagnosed aspies" i think it's little gray area :D I think physician is bounded to maintain medical confidentiality about the health of the patient, besides, you can always to lie, to say that about something forgotten to mention it. :D

Besides it seems to me that if the army, whether Polish, British or American, already to adopt someone with Asperger's and trained (which is expensive) but rather that it not be expelled from the service because it would be a waste of money, from what I know so does Poland the army, the man got to at most an official reprimand, which could be some hindrance, further promotion.



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06 Oct 2014, 8:23 pm

anyone who is Dumb enough to want to be in the military should be allowed.



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05 Jan 2015, 4:14 pm

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I don't think it should be a disqualification automatically but something to consider.

Remember that not every aspie has sensory issues or issues with schedules, so some might find the military a great success. Others might wash out.


I think Napoleon was Aspie :-)



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06 Jan 2015, 4:45 am

You can join its called LYING,its not like you have a physical disability .


The fact is if you really thing "eventually they will find out " then you might suffer from schizo and not aspergers .



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11 Jan 2015, 1:21 am

bacun wrote:
You can join its called LYING,its not like you have a physical disability .


The fact is if you really thing "eventually they will find out " then you might suffer from schizo and not aspergers .


When i was kid i want Polish Army, i'm from Poland, i was called to military medical examination (because we in Poland have draft army) unlike my other peers i hoped i will be drafted but i was rejected due medical reasons (not only asperger)

As for lying i think we not, we aspies have opinion of truth telling good boy/girls who always listen mama, daddies, bosses and all authority figures,

It's right time to change this damaging opinion, and lie and cheat as much as possible and use all methods to reach your goals! :twisted: :D



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19 Jan 2015, 8:35 pm

Guys, we're all aspies here.
There are several questions which are difficult to answer and require more investigation. No matter how convinced you are about the issue you frankly don't figure into how the future of the ban will play out.
1)can aspies function in the military?
Which will change over time(the opinion if they can, as there are probably a good number already enlisted) as the condition is better understood, especially among people who write the rules involved and the research becomes harder to ignore.
2) does the military want autists?
Is there will enough to change that, and do the people involved in making it happen in the first.
3)is there a group making significant strides, nonprofit legal activism, that is openly against this rule?
If so then advertising for them or forming on and being clear about what you want, reading books about how successful organizations worked and so on and throwing your hat in.

Think about the NRA. They have managed to repel gun control legislation through being a single issue well funded organization that talks directly to politicians and has plenty of adherents. You are discussing an issue that involves an entire subset of people vs. a state military.

In other words, you are all wrong, including me.



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31 Mar 2017, 3:00 pm

I'm formally diagnosed with ASD. I've been in the Canadian Forces for 26 years. Honestly it's the only job at which I've done well. It's hierarchical, highly structured, rules based and everyone has a very clearly delineated role and position.