At what age did you have your first kiss?

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I'll never have a first kiss.

Well if you live on a deserted island with no chance of escape, you might be right. Nothing is impossible. (except for being a center in the NBA)

I'm not so sure

I didn't get my first until 29. I have since lost count (I think 7 women now?) and hopefully I kissed my last.

Your profile says you're 14. I didn't even have my first real crush until I was 15!

I'm 32 , and still haven't had one

Same...and I'm 38. :/

Hopefully soon!

I don't understand why a first kiss is the only thing that is emphasized as important though, along with virginity.

What about first date?

First girlfriend/boyfriend (as in, before you begin getting affectionate)?

First hug, hand holding, etc.?

Most first kisses aren't really deep or meaningful, just 12 or 14 year olds messing around.

I'd value a first kiss as much as virginity.

I've learned that it doesn't really matter WHEN you had your first kiss, or when you lost your virginity.

It's quality that counts, not quantity or chronology.

I was 9 when I had my first "puppy love" kiss.

I had my first "real kiss" at age 14.

I really "felt" the kiss for the first time when I was 15.

Even if I, at 54, had just had my first kiss a few days ago--and my first lovemaking--and it was with the woman of my dreams, I wouldn't feel invalidated by having my first kiss so late.

"Real" first kiss officially a few weeks ago. Not a fan.

"First kiss" Yeah that's like non-existent

14, playing spin the bottle at my cousin's birthday party. The girl who landed on me was visibly disgusted but kissed me anyway, even after I told her she didn't have too if she found the idea so revolting. It was sort of disgusting for me too to be honest.

14, on the bus back from a marching band competition with my then-"boyfriend." Boyfriend in quotes because all we did was eat lunch together and hold hands sometimes and say we were dating.

I don't even mind if I never have a kiss or lose my virginity (don't really want to, anyway)...it's the never loving another person, and especially never being loved in return, that bothers me. I've had lots of crushes, but have never once in my life come anywhere close to having someone else reciprocate such feelings.

Whenever I lament about this online I'm assured there must be someone out there who's interested in me, but such reassurances always come from people who are not interested in me...so...that says a lot.

I know how you feel. My friends don't even bother lying to me about it. I guess it's obvious there's no person who would choose me. There may be someone who's desperate enough to need me, but I doubt there's someone who would want me. It's unfortunate that all our lives we're told this lie that there's someone for everybody. Well, there isn't and there's no reason to believe that there is. It may be unfair, but it is true. Most of people on this site will eventually find someone, but not all. Some of us are just not cute enough, not clever enough or not exciting enough to be liked. There's not much that you can do about it, other than enjoying your life the best way you can alone or if you're lucky with some friends or family. Sorry, I couldn't be more positive. I wish I could. I wish I would have a reason to be more positive about this.

Oh my gosh, I remember my first hand hold...it was in 9th grade, at a pep assembly, with a girl I'd had a crush on since the previous year. I was completely over the moon, I was like "Man, I LOVE pep assemblies! I'm never washing this hand again!"

Too bad I was far too much of a coward to reciprocate most of the other advances she had made towards me She even gave me her phone number and I never called.