A friend is going through a very hard time. How do I support her without being a doormat?
Yesterday I yelled back at her and told her that I'm always happy to help her but that I won't tolerate her yelling only at me (she doesn't yell at anyone else) and that I won't agree to picking up very big bills she dumps on me (she doesn't do this to others who have a lot of money, and I'm very poor).
Now she's angry and won't contact me, not even to ask for anything, so I come out to everyone as the one who isn't at her side in these tough times, and everyone is angry at me.
_________________
There are two means of refuge from the miseries of life: music and cats - Albert Schweitzer