Our 9th Vice President had an enslaved wife

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16 Jan 2024, 2:49 pm

My husband raped me and used the Bible to justify it. It doesn’t make it okay or any less hurtful even though I was an ignorant believer at the time and didn’t know that my experiences even counted.

He was (and is) a psychopath. People often use their holy books to justify their actions rather than inform them. Normal people wouldn’t want to behave this way, not even in Johnson’s day. It was just easier to get away with it.


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16 Jan 2024, 3:41 pm

TwilightPrincess wrote:
My husband raped me and used the Bible to justify it. It doesn’t make it okay or any less hurtful even though I was an ignorant believer at the time and didn’t know that my experiences even counted.

He was (and is) a psychopath. People often use their holy books to justify their actions rather than inform them. Normal people wouldn’t want to behave this way, not even in Johnson’s day. It was just easier to get away with it.


Sorry about your experiences. Psychopaths are evil, and are all over the place.


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16 Jan 2024, 6:17 pm

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Several posts making personal attacks have been removed.
Additionally, an off topic sequence has also been removed.

If a post upsets or causes concern it should be reported - the poster must not be attacked for making the post.


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17 Jan 2024, 9:11 am

If you look at Table 10 in here

https://www2.census.gov/library/publica ... _v1-13.pdf

The 1890 Census had "Persons of Negro Descent" divided into Negroes, Mulattoes, Quadroons and Octoroons.

About 15% of the people classified as "Negro" had 50% or more "White" ancestry.

Most of them were probably descended from slave women who had been raped (if we're going with the concept that the consent of an enslaved person doesn't count).


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17 Jan 2024, 7:26 pm

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As for the colorism issue. In CA Filipinos would swear I was a Filipina. Often asking me if I were, or trying to speak Tagalog. Wouldn’t take no for an answer. Latinos would ask if I “had the blood.” Was adamant that I am African American. Always corrected them. Internalized the Black is Beautiful. Despite my family.
As James Brown sang, “I’m Black and I’m proud!” I do not consider it a compliment to be confused with a different race.
Just last month someone asked me if I was part Native American. No offense but…here we go again. :?

Depending on my weight, when heavier asked if am Samoan. When thin, asked if I am Hawaiian. Can’t win.


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Don’t see many right-wingers taking the test on PBS. Especially Southerners. They really DO NOT want to know something like that. Might be a few, but haven’t seen every episode. So who knows?
Funny to see Latinos get their percentage of African DNA. They look so heartbroken.

I get it. I really do. My family passed as Puerto Rican on the way to CA in the 60’s so we wouldn’t have go the back of the train. Still segregated then. Kept my mouth shut. My Spanish is anything but fluent.


This got me thinking about how people understand their ethnic identity, vs. what their ancestry is.

It seems like when there's a significant mixed community, often an identity will emerge for that community (like the Lumbee or Cherokee Freedmen). It seems like when there isn't, mixed individuals end up assimilating into another group.

From that premise, there's likely a lot of white, native and black people with more mixed ancestry than they realize. Anti-miscegenation laws would impact how some minority communities assimilated (making native and black, and Asian and black marriages more common).

Appearance and ethnicity seems like a difficult topic to untangle though. Epicanthic folds (for example) are common in peoples of East Asian descent, but also Amerinds, some Africans, some Central and South Asians, some Europeans, etc. Someone who has them may or may not have gotten them from where someone else guesses.

I'd assume people who are imposing some other identity on you are wishfully projecting because they see a trait they associate with themselves and the group they identify with. That said, if you do have either Amerind or Polynesian ancestry, they might just (literally) be recognizing it.

That cringing from finding out the truth or being heartbroken upon discovery reactions are really disturbing. Imagine getting upset over your ancestor being from one background vs. another. I'm not even sure it should impact how one identifies going forward, although it should probably serve as a reflection point if someone views their ancestor's group as lessers.


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19 Jan 2024, 8:56 am

Eyeselation wrote:
As for the colorism issue. In CA Filipinos would swear I was a Filipina. Often asking me if I were, or trying to speak Tagalog. Wouldn’t take no for an answer. Latinos would ask if I “had the blood.” Was adamant that I am African American. Always corrected them. Internalized the Black is Beautiful. Despite my family.
As James Brown sang, “I’m Black and I’m proud!” I do not consider it a compliment to be confused with a different race.
Just last month someone asked me if I was part Native American. No offense but…here we go again. :?

Depending on my weight, when heavier asked if am Samoan. When thin, asked if I am Hawaiian. Can’t win.


Maybe your appearance resembles Nina Mae McKinney

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I'm watching the movie Sanders of the River. Paul Robeson absolutely outclasses everyone else in the movie--even dressed in a loincloth.

Nina Mae McKinney, especially compared to the other "Black" actors, with her fair skin and non-kinky hair, looked "White" to me. They both seemed out of place in a movie about colonial Nigeria. I suppose that's just part of the movie's charm.


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19 Jan 2024, 10:11 am

The daughter of friends of my parents told of stepping out of an elevator and being stopped by a young man who said one thing:

"Dont tell me! Comanche. Right?"

The guy then explained that he was a Native American of a plains tribe( like the Dakota).He was confident that he could not only recognize other Native Americans and could even peg their specific tribe (kinda like how White Americans like me will type other White Americans as "looking Irish", or "looking Italian..Swedish...Jewish ...et al". ).

She had to explain to him that "no, I am half Japanese, and half White American". She was the daughter of a White American Service man stationed in post WWII Japan with a VERY English last name, and a local Japanese lady. :lol:

But in all fairness native Americans often do look like a mix of Caucasian and East Asian.



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20 Jan 2024, 8:46 am

Here is a movie relevant to the subject: "Band of Angels"

https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0070354/

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Living in Kentucky prior to the Civil War, Amantha Starr is a privileged young woman. Her widower father, a wealthy plantation owner, dotes on her and sends her to the best schools. When he dies suddenly however, Amantha's world is turned upside-down. She learns that her father had been living on borrowed money and that her mother was actually a slave and her father's mistress. The plantation is to be sold to pay off her father's debts and as the daughter of a slave, Amantha is also to be sold as property. She is bought by Louisiana plantation owner Hamish Bond, and over time she grows to love him, until she learns he was a slave-trader. She tries again to become part of white society but realizes that her future lies elsewhere.


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20 Jan 2024, 11:43 pm

Honey69 wrote:
Most of them were probably descended from slave women who had been raped (if we're going with the concept that the consent of an enslaved person doesn't count).


Given laws in the US that banned/forbid interracial intimacy, the 20-25% European genes in the average African American suggest that nearly every single female slave was subject to rape.

Romantic notions of presidents falling in love with their servants (a narrative pushed on the US public) unfortunately does not sugar coat the fact that these man of high social standing were basically indulging in rape and pedophilia.

It's no wonder there is an active attempt for this topic to be erased from US schools.