The rules exist so we can trip over them. If someone likes you, your imperfections shouldn't matter and things should flow naturally. If someone doesn't like you, they will find fault no matter what. If you're short, you'll be too short. If you're careful, you're a prude. If you're too smart, you're a nerd. The bottom line is that if a person doesn't like you, then there's nothing you can do about it. Move on.