See where I think some of the problem lays in this discussion is this defining "low". Of course people get by just fine with a low sex drive, mine is certainly lower then when I was younger and that's fine. But, to say that at the age of 64, which my wife is, to have almost 0 sex drive is a problem for her as well as me. Sex drive is important, it a part of a relationship, it's natural and very healthy for her mentally. Now, having said that if it weren't fixed, which it isn't, we get by just fine. But if something can be done about it? Why would you not want it? She does and that's good enough for me. Step in her way and I'll hurt you. You guys are younger and you just haven't seen it. Not your fault and it isn't easy to grasp unless you've lived it or been in a relationship where it is a problem. I take care of my own needs, but there is an closeness part that even I, the untouchable, need once in a while as well as she does. Cuddle? Not the same.
It's the wanting that is missing it has nothing to do with foreplay. She's what I call a nester, foreplay for her sometimes starts days before the actual act. It's more of a courtship type deal with her, not spontaneous for it's best. And I'm about done trying to convince people that I could care less about understanding it to begin with. Some of you may end up in this situation and understand it and there are many reasons one doesn't have to hit an older age.
Yes you too will someday grow up, maybe. And please take that just as I meant it. Worry about getting any to begin with. Let me worry about something you might need later.
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Just enjoy what you do, as best you can, and let the dog out once in a while.