I've been asked if I would date an Aspergian, and I gave it some thought.
One one hand, I would possibly have a deeper understanding of her thought processes, know the troubles of life, and be aware of the aspie quirks. It could feel somehow more real, better even, to be dating 'our own kind' (not meant derogatively, I just couldn't think of another way of putting it).
But then there is the other side.... what if we did things differently, a way that the other one didn't like. Yes there is compromise, but I've always found that hard. Not being able to give/read body language could hinder the relationship - or it might help, because to overcome that, the two parties might talk more.
Theoretically, I see no major issue with two aspies dating, provided the are not far along the spectrum. To find books, just search amazon with the terms 'asperger', 'love', and 'dating'.