Qualities you want in a guy/girl?

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Listing everything I'd like in a girlfriend and eventual wife would take far too long, so here's some highlights...

Character Traits

1) She must be a Christian, no exceptions. I don't mean some social churchgoer, either; a personal relationship with Christ is very important to me. I've been in a spiritually-divided relationship before, and it ended terribly. What we as individuals believe about life influences everything we think, feel, and do.

2) She must understand my desire to save sex for marriage, and be willing to do the same. This is one of the main reasons why my past relationship failed; we didn't place the same value on intimacy, both physical and emotional.

3) I don't want a woman who's aching for motherhood. I was raised around kids long after I stopped being one myself, to the point I've pretty much burned out on them. I can be sociable and kind to children, so long as I'm able to send them home.

4) No gold-diggers, period. I'm not a cheapskate, but I'm also not the type who spends $1000 on something really small, for myself or anyone else.

5) After marriage, I want to be both a blessing to my wife in the sexual arena on a regular basis, and receive the same in return. I want us both to be satisfied with our marital intimacy, so neither of us go looking elsewhere. This also means no porn at all, and no multiple partners.

Physical Traits

1) Height comparable to my own (I'm 5'11").

2) Semi-long hair (shoulder-length is very attractive to me).

3) No weird hair colors like green, orange, blue, or purple (unless its Halloween).

4) One of my favorite aspects of a woman's face is her eyes, and some women have this quality that just draws me in emotionally. I can't quite explain it, but I've seen it a few times, and it never fails to amaze me. I guess the best word for it would be "soulful".

5) Neither heavyset nor pencil-thin; I really like a balanced figure.

6) No disrespect intended, but I am most definitely a "breast man". I'm not talking comically large like Jessica Rabbit, but a C or D size looks nice to me. Anything over a DD would be too much, in my opinion.