Eligible Odd-Bods! - The Premier Aspergian Singles List

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I never have posted something of this magnitude because I prefer to study someone to determine compatibility. I will this time for something new.
Hello, My name is Tim. I am twenty six years of age but I look eighteen to all my colleagues. I'm a Chemical Engineering student with a passion for math, science, and tactical gaming such as League of Legends and Soccer.
I am six one with an average body. I run two miles everyday and I often cannot shut up about my passions. I'm very reserved and introverted person, but when stressed out I'm often extremely blunt. My small talk is lacking but I can hold a conversation if need be. I'm a caring and outgoing person but also tend to be very analytical so my decision making is often misconstrued by the common rabble. I don't have much flaws besides my extreme bluntness and intolerance of unintelligent people. I cannot stand being around smoker's and drug abusers. I have been an Higher Functioning Aspie since my childhood along with Low Limited Inhibition. My current IQ at this present time is 144. I mainly judge based on a persons personality. I'm extremely analytical so I can easily pick out peoples traits by just simple things they do. I'm sorry if this is intimidating. It is merely something I have developed in order to survive my traumatic childhood. I'm heterosexual so if that fits someone you are looking for feel free to contact me. Please understand I'm interested in a serious relationship. If you have any more questions message me.
Have a good day,
Tim

My names Austin. I was diagnosed with Aspergers Syndrome when i was in Kindergarten. Ive had 2 relationships in the past but both have ended very badly. My first relationship was a mutual breakup, my second relationship i was cheated on. Im 20 years old and am currently attending Missouri State University in Springfield, Missouri. I think i have much to offer to someone. All i ask for is a chance to show it. I have a huge heart and will help anyone when they are down regardless if its beneficial to me or not.

My Main Interests: I love History, it is what i'm majoring in actually. I plan on getting a Ph.D and teaching at the college level eventually. My favorite time period is the 20th Century but i love the Middle Ages as well and the 18th Century. Im fascinated by how the human race got to where it is today. My other interests include Politics (I was voted most likely to become president in my high school class lol), Travel (I want to travel the world with my future wife), Writing (Im trying to become a published author, I've written two unpublished novels), Video games (Ive been playing video games sense i was 3 years old it was a way for me to cope for my inability to socialize well), Anime (A more recent interest of my its made me love Japanese culture I also am planning to study abroad in Japan next summer and want to learn Japanese.), Music (Im attempting to learn the keyboard/piano and i would love to learn the drums eventually) and many other things

Facts about me: I have red hair (Something i take great pride in) I come from Irish/German decent. I have also have blue eyes. As i said above i have a huge heart, i consult my friends about issues they have all the time. I will help anybody in need who needs help. I was bullied greatly from 6th grade to my Sophomore year of high school for being "Different" many of these bullies who came to know me eventually became good friends of mine. I started to become better at socializing in high school and havn't looked back sense. I am also Catholic and Straight. I do not attend church very often so you could say im not a practicing catholic but i am a firm believer in god. When it comes to politics i view myself as an independent.

What i'm looking for in a relationship: I want someone who will accept me for me. I have so much to offer in a relationship all i ask for is a chance. I see myself as someone who will change the world, and make the world a better place before i leave it. I hate hurting anyone. I don't believe in taking advantage of women. I want a girlfriend who i can tell her how beautiful she is everyday and spoil her, someone i can fall in love with and marry and have a family with eventually. I would be in it for the long haul and not the short term.

I used to look at Aspergers as my curse and that it would destroy my life. My view has changed to a much better outlook as ive aged. Aspergers has given me a way of looking at the world that not many can understand. I look at it as if it was a blessing placed upon me and i have worked my hardest to use it to my advantage then allow it to be baggage that weighs me down. I aspire to be someone great. I just need someone who is willing to be great with me.

Hmm, let's consider this a kind of preliminary message -- an invitation to bookmark and follow.

Male, 56, single. Gentleman and scholar, kind, thought-full, seeks small, sickly, genius-girl with one eye and a limp.* A companion through adventure and hardship. Not aspie enough for anyone to notice, but aspie enough to have faced obstacles in life.

History, science, literature, wordplay, geography, liberty, Classics, education, genealogy, philosophy, New England. Car-free, INTJ. Still hoping for marriage and a family.

*Metaphorically or literally, it doesn't matter.

**Male to female dating thread ratio reaching critical levels, Wrongplanet implosion countdown initiated**

Seriously though, there are like 20 guys here for every girl on these types of threads... And like one post every few months. It makes them kind of pointless.

WOW... thank you for this thread

Ok, my turn:

Name: Graham
Age: mid-thirties
Looks: Shaved head (i hate going bald so why not), glasses, a bit overweight (14 st but looks fat)
Personality: (makes up for the above) Very loving, sincere and honest, very ODD sense of humor (love making people laugh... love people making ME laugh... can be a bit dirty with it sometimes I.E. Dirty/rude jokes etc)
Interests: Movies (a lot of genres), reading (sci-fi/fantasy - some historical - books concerning myths and legends), Writing (poems and short stories), Art (creating my own and viewing others) PC GAMES!! ! (i youtube), long walks in the country.
Sexuality: Undecided (sometimes i can be VERY *straight*... Other times I think i am Bi-curious (this is not definate, but had a good experience when i was at college)

What am i looking for?:

PLEASE NOTE: I am mainly looking for a fellow ASPIE/ASD (because i tried the whole NT thing... and it never (usually) works)
Ages: From 27 to 48
Looks: NOT IMPORTANT
Personality: Similar to me (or someone who can accept MY personality) Someone who LOVES to laugh/cuddle etc
Interests: NOT IMPORTANT (although Should be similar to me... NOT too much though )
Sexuality: MAINLY female - straight... But i will accept Bi females/Bi-Curious Men (not looking for a full homosexual relationship)

If you would like a photo, then please ask for one in PM... also ask me anything you like to know etc

EDIT: forgot to say i live in Surrey (UK) - NEAR Guildford

EDIT 2: Did i mention i LOOOOOVE to cuddle?

FINAL EDIT: I know i said looks are unimportant (this is very true, especially to me) However, i do *prefer* the punk/goth/emo/rock chick look (as i used to be all of them myself and i also find these kind of people very sincere and loving) - i do not mean to put anyone down... and neither do i mean any offence at all- also sorry if am misusing the caps lock (i only use it to highlight) thank you

Age: 23
Height: 5'1"
Gender: Female, Tomboy
Build: Skinny, slight curves
Location: Indiana, USA
Orientation: Hetero-romantic Asexual

Hi there, my name is Montana, i live in Indiana. I seek a man near my age, perferably local to indiana, but close by a state or two is fine. I prefer Online then RL dating style. I would like if the man is also Aspie. Is ok with a girl being Emotional at times, and likes video games.

Must like or be ok with Paganism/Wicca. As its my Religion of choice. I do not mind your chosen faith, but it must not make me feel bad about mine. Any Q's or interests, PM me

Hello to all you Aspie studs out there

Age: 35
Height: 5'3"
Gender: Female, Feminine
Build: Very curvy
Location: Texas, USA
Orientation: Heterosexual
Seeking: Hetero men ages 33-45

I've been told I have a calming presence, and you can hear my warm smile on the phone. I have plus-size curves but self-confident. I exercise regularly, vegetarian. Despite my Aspergers and my introversion, I've modeled on a catwalk, as a plus-size woman--I am not ashamed of my body. I am happy with how God made me, and I don't cover up my natural beauty with make-up or fake hair color--what you see is what you get!

I work full-time and am a single mom of a 15-year-old. To read about my work and interests, please check out my Wrong Planet profile.

My ideal match: My best friend. Intuitive man even if he has a lot of trouble expressing emotions, he can sense somehow the emotional climate of others. Hard worker. I'd be happy with a man who has had few sexual partners like me, or a virgin. Maybe he has kids also, I'm accepting of them too. He must like physical touch other than just sex, because I'm a touchy-feely mate. He has cultivated some good social skills albeit still learning, and has at least 1-2 good friends. He's kind, even if it's hard to express feelings he tries to write them out or talk about it, he's not afraid to talk about emotions. Those around him respect him--his friends and his enemies could attest that he's an honest, Christian man who likes reading the Bible and sharing the Bible with others. Prayerful man. Does not drink alcohol, nonsmoker. Likes working with his hands. Confident in his work and seeks to keep his mind sharp. He prefers working outside to sitting around inside, therefore, video games is not one of his hobbies. He values eating as healthy as possible. (That's also an important factor to me.) He likes physical activity and wants his future wife to be his activity partner. He makes deliberate efforts to be around others. If he had opportunity, he would like to volunteer with teens and youth to help them stay on the right path in life, not just act like their play-buddy. He may have a past with women but chooses now to save sex for marriage.

It is my prayer that you would consider spiritual compatiblity the most important factor of your relationships with a potential spouse. I do. So glad someone taught me about biblical courtship. It's what I want. Curious about courtship? Watch the 2015 movie "Old Fashioned." Ellen White's book "The Adventist Home" is another good courtship resource.

Thank you for visiting my ad! If you are interested, please don't be shy! I just want to start with friendship and go from there. But if you want me you must pursue me, because I won't take you seriously otherwise, I don't pick up on suttle hints....May God bless you in your search.

Wow, you sure know what you want o_O

^lol, which isn't necessarily a bad thing...just means that it'll probably be more difficult for her to find someone with those criteria.

TXorchid: have you tried dating sites tailored to Christians? Seems like you would have more success there.

Exactly.

Surely there would be a compromise if a promising fella wasn't a 100% match, though. Nobody is perfect!

Yes, I really spelled it out this time, lol! This was not my typical dating ad. I tailor-made the ad for this site--I took you Aspie guys seriously when y'all said no subtle hints!



I admire many qualities in men; my ad listed a majority of them. Truly, I don't expect any guy to be a 100% match to that description--it's my intention to be direct but not present this as "all or nothing."

But I've learned this much--actions speak louder than words. My dating ad just expounds on that principle. Bottom-line: I am interested in how a man lives his life--his values applied--above his passive interests.

If what I like in a man doesn't seem anywhere close to describing the reader, he just crosses me off his list and moves along, right? I'm also not here to amass responses from guys. (Some dating sites I've been on seem to want you to do that--when you exceed 50 overtures it feels soo ridiculous.) If one guy says hi from Wrong Planet then great and if not, I'm still doing good.

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Thank you Beau for your suggestion! I don't date online much but have used Christian dating sites for years. I recently decided to seek out Aspie men not just NT men. So, how to find a fellow Aspie on mainstream dating sites, Christian-focused or no? I accept that I have Aspergers; yet even I am reticent to put that out there in an online dating community that may not be understanding about the Autism spectrum. When a great guy omits the fact that he has Aspergers from his mainstream dating ad, there's a side effect: Aspie girls like me who are looking for him can't find him. So, I'm trying here....Who knows what could result?

Friendship and getting wiser about Aspergers is mainly why I'm here. And I believe I will make many new friends here on Wrong Planet. Finding an interested guy isn't crucial to my happiness. I view that prospect as icing on the cake.

Heyy speak for yourself j/k!




That's a good attitude and approach to have. What you said makes sense; might as well cast a wide net and see what happens lol. Anyways, hope you enjoy it here

Hey yall. I had an account on here but forgot the log in. So this is my new one.

I'm Collin and I'm from Louisiana. I'm 25 and my job is a communications soldier in the Army. I have "man's" body, per say (hairy chest and legs, some muscle build, bit of a belly, etc) and i thourghly enjoy video games, fishing, and scuba diving. I enjoy working out but not in front of a bunch of people (unless it's front of fellow soldiers). I do own a hunting rifle and plan on adding more to that collection (at some point..).
As for the type of girl i'm looking for? Hmm...well, red hair, black hair, and dyed hair are my favorite colors on woman's head but i'm throwing a wide net in the big pond here, so i'm open to new horizons. I will say i'm not in to women who are in to unhealthy habits or are overly fat or overly skinny; it causes health problems and, being a soldier, i may not alwas be there to take care of her.

That's a good point. I see a lot of girls post in this thread, and then vanish. I just imagine their PM inbox exploding and scaring them away.



Well if any of us were "perfect" from society's point of view, none of us would even be on this website

I know I'm way far from perfect, I dread the idea of passing my genes along. Not to sound depressing, I just have a lot of hereditary health issues =| Blech.

...anyway, back to the topic...