So is this girl into me or what?

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So there's a girl in my ecology class who was assigned to be one of my group members for a final presentation. I thought she was very pretty so whenever we would work together i'd make sure to tell her that as much as I could. She gave me a couple weird looks but i think its because she was flirting back with me . So I found her facebook online and was going to send her a message one day but before I started to type it out I decided I wanted to be a little more original to let her know I liked her. Luckily she had her parents names listed on her page so I used an online address book to find out her street address. Next I baked a bunch of cookies with this heart shaped cutter that my mom had- I must've made around 30-40 lol . Once the cookies were done I drove to her house when I knew she would be home- thank god for facebook because she had posted a status that she had dancing til 9pm that night- and I waited til she got back before I ran over to her and shoved the tray of cookies in her hands. Originally I had a long speech prepared to tell her but I got a little flustered and ending up shouting her name at her before running away . Ive sent her a couple emails since and she hasnt responded. Is she just playing hard to get? I think she may want me

I'm sorry to say this but I think you may have creeped her out. I mean majorly so...

I know it's not your intent, and i believe you in that your heart was in the right place, but thats the kind of overboard that makes women scared of you. It was hard for me to understand as well, I've been there (and a whole bunch of us as well), so i understand your confusion...

so should I have baked more cookies?
I should have had the speech memorized

Yeah you sound like a stalker...

[quote="Asp-Z"]Yeah you sound like a stalker...[/quote
I think you're just jealous

No, you were coming on too intense... you need to back off a bit.

Are you serious?

He has Aspergers, the social and emotional cues are tough to decipher. I have AS too and those "weird looks" from her I can easily decipher as a red light for me to stop.

please respond

This can't be real...

yes

Considering this guy just joined and these are his first posts, it probably isn't.

ive always lurked the site but never have posted before because I havent needed help until now

Ok. I'll believe you. How old are you? What grade are you in? What class is it that you share with her? When you brought cookies to her and she wasn't there, where did you wait and what did her parents say?

I gave cookies to a girl and was told it was inappropriate. Is it because the gift was to soon?

I'm 19 and a senior in highschool. We shared ecology together 4th period. I didn't hide in the bush like a creeper or anything, I just sat on her steps at the front of her house and whenever she pulled in to the driveway I ran over...

I don't know what her parents said because I didn't knock on the door or anything while I waited and I ran away before I could talk to the girl about it