when does someone officially become boyfriend or girlfriend

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so,when does a person officially become boyfriend or girlfriend.
so,my female friend she has
-agree to hang out
-both kissed each other
-she gave me her number and address
-always hug each other goodbye
so,are we boyfriend,girlfriend,we haven't
actual said it yet.

when do you draw the line.
when does it become official

When you agree that you are, typically, I think.

It sounds like you two are friends and might go on a date soon. Not a couple. Though I'm not sure what you mean by "both kissed each other"...if you have made out, then there's probably something happening there. If you have given each other a quick peck hello or something then it sounds like you are just friends at this stage.

What do you mean by made out?

A "romantic" kiss, more than just a peck on the cheek or lips. The type you wouldn't give a friend or family member.

Or any other definition of "making out" really.

Pretty much this.

If you unsure, about your type of relationship, and want to know about your type of relationship, you should talk to you friend about that topic. If you agree on each other about having an relationship, you have an relationship.

Pretty much none of the guys are gonna have an excuse after Billis scores his first GF, just saying.

Carried over from the other thread:

Let's slow down a bit, tiger. Enjoy the honeymoon period. The making it official part doesn't need to be rushed into. The last thing you need is to come on too strong too quick. If she's really into you, she won't go anywhere regardless.

Sounds to me like you're still in the "going out" phase. Generally (from what I understand of modern dating) the boyfriend/girlfriend thing doesn't start untill the sex/sleepingover does. Sometimes not even then, it's different for every girl.

I'll echo others here and say that it doesn't actually start untill you both sit down and discuss it. Like I said earlier though, if she's really into you, there's no need to rush anything.

I really hope this happens. After all the PUA attempts and other silliness, all it took was not trying so hard and being himself for a seemingly compatible person to swing into his orbit. I know it's super arrogant but I'll admit to feeling slightly vindicated with my advice.

Some sound tips by the members here at WP. I 2nd (or 3rd now) what yellowtamarin said about when you both agree that you are. If I may say this, no need to hurry to give a "name" to what you have...instead simply enjoy these fun and new moments together.

I had 2 girlfriends before.

Here's how it nearly always happens with me:

Person 1: Huh.... we're dating, aren't we?
Person 2: I guess so. Cool!

And that's kinda it =/

Here's a quick answer to this question:

Don't ask someone whether they want to be your girlfriend (unless, of course, they ask you first OR really, really seem interested.) With my last girlfriend, I may have done the final asking, but the relationship was there all along, and she seemed to be the one asking me, asking "Do you like me?"

You must, rather, make a good impression on her and do more with her. Experiences are what count.

Minor details. If you can get a gf, anyone can, even if she's a bit...disabled.

maybe,if these lonely aspie guys actual hung around eccentric,autism,disable
women,they might have a chance.

At least on the autism part, finding such women can be pretty tricky. But you go you pioneer you!